April 19, 2011 in Uncategorized
I had the most amazing orgasm on Sunday. I felt the pleasure resonate throughout my body, from head to toe. I did as u said, light touching on my g-spot. I’m pleased to say I found it immediately.
It really was such a unique experience for me, stimulating a part of my body I (or anyone else) have never touched before & experiencing immense pleasure.
I actually cried afterwards & I know u mentioned that this sometimes happens.
Thank you, I’m so glad I attended your workshop.’
This was sent to me after The G-Night workshop that took place a few weeks ago.
It confirmed how important Real, Open, Positive, Non-Judgemental Learning about sex is.
There are 3 basic aspects to this.
The first is simply information.
Without embarrassment, without shame, without judgement, without myth and misinformation and misunderstanding.
Open, honest information.
About your body, about his body, about her body.
What everything is, where it is, how to find it, what to with it when you find it, how does it work. The basic stuff that nobody teaches us.
And then the possibilities.
Oh my word, the possibilities!
The techniques, because so much of sexual learning is about technique.
Then personalizing it, but the techniques first. How to.
When we know how to, how to communicate, how to find out what we like, what each other likes, how to explore, how to bring up the topics, the desires, the needs and wants we have, how to express them, how to make it ok for us to be who we are sexually…
When we know how, when we have an idea of how to go where, a framework, a direction, a recipe, a step-by-step guide, we can get there, or at least begin the journey, open the discussion.
Then we have two vital things, safety and confidence.
Self-confidence, because we know.
And safety, because we know how to create what we’d like.
Even exploring on our own.
Now this is important, because so many people think the sexual and sensual journey is for those in relationship.
It’s for everyone.
Sometimes exploring, healing, learning and growing on your own makes even more sense. It gives you a sense of yourself as sexual being in your own right, responsible for your happiness and pleasure.
Then when you choose to be in a relationship, it can be very different to whatever you’ve done before.
The second aspect is exploring. On your own or with a partner.
Deepening and enhancing what it is, what you know, what you do.
Without some understanding, without some tools and guidance we can’t do this in a way that gives the results we’re looking for.
So many of the experiences, whatever they may involve, on your own, with your own body, a partner, an extra person, 10 more people, an emotional journey, a spiritual experience, ropes and blindfolds, we need guidance.
And most of what we know doesn’t fit where we’d like to go.
The understanding and information we have is simply not enough.
So why should the experience be any different?
Why should something else happen?
The 3rd aspect of this is linked to both, healing.
It comes out of everything, is part of everything, healing comes from exploring, exploring gives rise to healing.
It’s all entwined.
And the meaning of Tantra, one of the definitions of the word itself, is ‘Weaving the Web’, the web of life, all aspects of life, all connected.
Every part of us is connected to every other part, to the world, to life.
Healing is growing in consciousness, awareness, knowledge, information, understanding and connection.
And it all leads to greater pleasure, greater love, greater intimacy, greater freedom.
And as I finish writing this I receive an email from Super Sensual Saturday which shows something amazing.
The people who are experiencing this are no different from you and I. They’re ‘just people’.
That’s not quite true.
They are different, because they took a step, they were nervous, she was really scared.
But they took a step, Tantric Warriors.
And look what happened!
It’s there for all of us.
Thank you for the best experience of our lives. We went home and ate Sushi of each others bodies and thereafter had the best sex we ever had. My wife had such a great orgasm that she ejaculated in a huge squirt. After that she was totally spent and fell gracefully asleep.
The following morning we tried the expanded orgasm and she actually experienced it for the first time. We were so exited and worked up that we ended up having great sex again.
She said it will be my turn tonight, can’t wait.
Thanks again for sharing this great experience with us and we look forward to arranging our next session on the path to healing and fulfillment.
THE LONG WEEKEND
I will be in Jo’burg over the weekend and will be available for lessons and massage.
In fact let’s do something special on Sat Morning.
If you’d like to be a model for a massage lesson, please let me know.
You lie there and get massaged, learn, have a great experience, what a way to spend time!
TANTRIC WAVE EXPANDED ORGASM
THE G-SPOT ADDED
The Expanded Orgasm with Female Ejaculation, G-Spot Healing and Orgasm Possibilities.
Sat 23rd April
Time: 10:30 am
Venue: 257 Jan Smuts Ave, Dunkeld.
Singles and Couples.
For this week only…
3 amazing DVD’s to expand your knowledge and pleasure:
Expanded Orgasm, Yoni Massage and Simple Pleasures – Oral and Manual techniques for Erotic Stimulation.
R600 for all 3 postage included.
To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard bank, Rivonia, Code: 001255, Acc: 420006427.