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Field of Possibilities

May 31, 2011 in Uncategorized

The past few weeks have been filled with the most amazing sharing, learning and growing, a true Tantric journey of exploration of the body, the heart, the mind, the spirit of pleasure, growth, healing, connection, intimacy and love.

 

As much as Tantra is a philosophy, and I consider myself a sexual philosopher, particularly with the release of my audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex, it is, above all else, a practice.

It’s active, involved, personal and about doing.

 

We can talk all we like, we can explore ideas, concepts, theories, philosophies, beliefs etc.

We experience through doing.

We grow through doing.

We heal through doing.

We expand through doing.

We explore through doing.

We connect through doing.

We feel through doing.

We release through doing. 

 

This journey is for singles, for couples, it’s for people of all ages, all orientations, all backgrounds.

One of the principles of Tantra is that it’s inclusive, there’s a way for you to experience the beauty, the magic, the possibility.

In fact, that’s what Tantra is, a field of possibility.

 

The sharing and learning in talks and workshops around the country have brought incredible new learning to the fore.

This has come in an understanding of a new way of looking at experiences and relationships, at growth and healing, at communication and exploration.

And it’s practical, and simple, so simple.

 

Then there has been the realization, something that has been said at almost every talk and workshop, we all want the same things.

And in the field of Tantric possibilities, we can have it.

But it’s only going to happen through doing.

 

Tantra is Eastern in origin, its principles and practices are ancient, but it’s become about us, for us, all of us, accessible, understandable and do-able.

It doesn’t have to be complicated, it doesn’t have to be weird.

It can offer simple power for us to express, explore, experience.

All that we are.

All that we can be.

 

It’s about love.

Healing, growing, connecting with love.

Not airy-fairy love.

Real, tangible, expanding love.

 

We have so many definitions of ourselves as pain beings.

We are so comfortable, even happy with pain.

We wallow in it, relish it.

It gives us definition.

It gives us meaning.

 

We have so few definitions of ourselves as pleasure beings.

 

Tantra Evolution is stepping into the field of possibilities, pleasure possibilities.

 

 

There is so much in the coming month for us to share and explore.

 

As part of The Encounters Documentary Film Festival in Cape Town, there will be a screening of G-spotting by Segolene Hanotaux and Gilles Boyon on 25th June. The film makers explore the history of the locating the g-spot and questions whether it really exists.

I will be part of a panel discussion after the movie.

This will be the start of a week of workshops in Cape Town where I’ll be sharing the new learning and techniques with you.

 

The G-spot MOST DEFINITELY EXISTS.

The pleasure possibilities it brings are sometimes beyond words.

It may need some healing and release to wake this up and make it possible.

Learning about your own, or your partner’s G-spot is so important on the journey into pleasure.

This is available as a lesson for singles and couples.

 

TANTRA FOR COUPLES

 

A 4 session programme that gives you an introduction to Tantra, what Tantric sex is, what a Tantric relationship offers you, practical experiences that deepen the intimacy and connection, Tantric lovemaking, communication and more.

Wed 8th June, 7 pm, R2000/couple.

This is also available as a private programme.

 

TANTRA FOR SINGLES

 

This is a private journey of growth, healing and exploration. We talk about what you’d like to do, then create a programme for you.

If you’d like to explore this in a group, please let me know.

 

FOR MEN

Learning about what she really wants to get more of what you really want, the understanding and skills of becoming a super lover.

 

I spend most of my time talking to groups of women, most of the people who come to the workshops are women. If you guys could hear and take note of some of the things women say, want, dream about, fantasize about, and learn some of the things I know, you will be amazed at how much more sex, how much more pleasure you’ll have.

 

This 5 session course will teach you some of the truth about women, about the way women view sex and love, how women communicate and a range of sexual skills to take her to heaven.

Thurs 9th June, 7 pm, R2500/person.

 

SENSUAL MASSAGE SPECIAL

 

R400 for a massage of healing, growth, sensual connection and deep pleasure.

 

SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY

 

Sat 18th June: Expanded Orgasm 11 am, R300/person.

Tantric Sensual Massage 1:30 pm, R1800/couple.

R2000/couple for the day.

 

CAPE TOWN 

 

Mon 27th June, 7 pm Expanded Orgasm, R300/person, singles and couples.

Tues 28th June, 7 pm Tantra Evolution, R300/person, singles and couples.

Wed 29th June, The G-night, a practical experience of the G-spot, healing, release, deep states of pleasure, R300/person.

Thurs 30th June, The Art Of Sex, 7 pm, practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did, R300/person, singles and couples.

Sat 2nd July, 11 am, Tantric Sensual Massage, a practical experience for couples, R1800/couple.

Sun 3rd July, 1 pm, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, the connection between sex and spirituality, R1800/couple.

 

There are discounts for attending more than 1 workshop.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

Let’s Talk About Sex is R280, 3 CD’s, just under 4 hours long, R280.

‘You just have to listen to this!!!’

 

 

 

 

DVD’S

 

I have a few DVD sets available at the special price of R600 for 3 titles, Expanded Orgasm, Yoni Massage and Simple Pleasures.

IN THE WORLD

 

You can now follow me on Twitter: tantraevolution.

Please read my blog, www.TantricteacherAtLarge, find me on Facebook, join the group Sensual Reality, or visit the website www.sensualreality.co.za.

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

workshop special

May 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

A SPECIAL OFFER FOR THE SENSUAL PEOPLE IN DURBAN

10% DISCOUNT ON ALL WORKSHOPS FOR THIS WEEK

EXPANDED ORGASM TONIGHT, R300 LESS 10%

TANTRA TOMORROW NIGHT

CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING ON FRI

AND

A WEEKEND TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE

TANTRIC SENSUAL MASSAGE, SAT AFTERNOON

TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, SUN AFTERNOON

EMAIL/CALL TO BOOK: jontisearll@mweb.co.za, 083 7435129.

QUESTIONS NEWSLETTER

May 17, 2011 in Uncategorized

The questions I am asked every day often apply to many people.

We’re not alone in the issues and problems we have, which is one of the reasons I share feedback and experiences from people in the newsletters. When I do this, without fail, somebody sends an email talking about a similar experience or feeling and now they feel normal.

 

We don’t get much open, non-judgemental information about sex beyond the basics. There are very few forums to ask ANY question and get a full and honest opinion. This is one of my continuous soap-boxes and something that comes out at every talk and workshop.

 

There are four big and recurrent problems at the moment.

And all of them can be helped.

 

The first is premature ejaculation.

This happens to many more men than will admit it, and sadly few will actually get help. It’s still seen as absolute taboo, as is talking about sexual problems for many men in general.

The impact on a relationship and a man’s self confidence and power is enormous.

My approach is not clinical, rather holistic and practical in a way that looks at all aspects of our being. For any ‘treatment’ to be effective, I believe we have to take this route.

Simply because we are complex beings, everything about us is linked to everything else about us, the ‘cause and effect’ model is not applicable to problems of this nature. Our sexuality does not happen in a vacuum, it’s emotional, it’s energy, it’s spiritual, it’s mental, it’s physical…

 

The second is libido, or rather the lack and loss thereof, disinterest in sex.

This impacts on both men and women and can have a devastating effect on a relationship.

This is very much a symptom of life today with stress being the biggest enemy of lowered libido. Interestingly, many of the quick-fixes have as negative an impact on the issue.

 

The third big issue is women not having orgasms.

I don’t think anybody knows the real figure for this, but it’s high.

Once again, there are so many aspects to this that a holistic approach is vital to changing this, and for so many women it can be changed, generally easily and pretty quickly.

This becomes a huge issue because we’ve put orgasm as the criterion for successful sex, we’ve made it the be all and end all, and the media have helped wonderfully.

The truth is that most women, with the right help, can experience wonderful orgasms, in many ways.

 

The fourth problem is lack of fulfillment and intimacy.

There are two parts to this, the first is the physical, learning to be a good lover, learning about your body and theirs, what everything is, where it is, how to find it, what to do with it when you find out, then so much else. A great deal of sexual skill is learned.

The intimacy is different. It often needs to be learned, and this is one of the prime things that come out of a Tantric journey, but it very much comes from within. Which means we need to look at ourselves, what we believe love is, what relationships are about, vulnerability and connection, what we want from relationships of all descriptions etc.

 

The next issue is not really a problem, but questions about it are increasing.

Anal sex.

The questions are: is it painful, the answer is no, if you do it right. This is one that definitely needs research and learning.

I’ve put a lesson together on helping make this a pleasurable experience, and it can be extremely pleasurable, for both partners.

It’s gotta be fair, guys, and if you enjoy anal stimulation, which can intensify and heighten your orgasm greatly, it does not mean you’re gay!

But before we even get to the how-to, the question is how to bring the subject up, how to open the conversation and discuss what is often a touchy subject.

The Tantric approach has so much to offer here and has helped so many people have wonderful, exciting, intimate and pleasurable experiences.

 

The other frequent questions at the moment are about painful sex, female ejaculation, internal orgasms, experiences with more than one person, what’s normal, the role of toys and fantasies, the place of porn/erotica.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX is the result of about seven years of writing and talking.

 

 ‘An absolute wealth of information, thank you for this’.

‘The topics on the CD have opened a space for us to talk about so much to do with sex, we listen to one of the talks, then we talk about it, what we fell. We’ve never had this kind of intimacy in our relationship”.

‘I have learned so much from this, my eyes have been opened to a world of possibilities’.

‘Listening to this is like listening to a meditation on sex’.

‘Thank you Jonti for sharing something so simple, so beautiful and so deep, I want more!’

‘I love this, thank you, thank you’.

‘Every man should listen and HEAR what you have to say about women and what women want’.

‘Your gentle wisdom and humour have given me so much to think about’

‘The truth in these words has blown me away’.

 

Let’s Talk About Sex is R280, 3 CD’s, just under 4 hours long.

 

 

 

DURBAN WORKSHOPS

 

I am SO looking forward to being in Durban next week, there is so much to share.

The evening workshops are for singles and couples, you do need a partner for the massage workshops.

 

The Bedroom Hillcrest :

MON 23RD: THE ART OF SEX, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

TUES 24TH: HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX, 1 pm, R100 p/p

TUES 24TH: EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

 

The Bedroom Umhlanga:

WED 25TH: TANTRA, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

THURS 26TH, CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

 

The Soul Sanctuary:

SAT 28TH: TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, 1:00 pm, R1800/couple

SUN 29TH: TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, 11 am, R1800/couple

Special offer of both massage workshops: R2500

DVD’S

 

I have a few DVD sets available at the special price of R600 for 3 titles, Expanded Orgasm, Yoni Massage and Simple Pleasures.

 

TAOIST MASSAGE

 

Taoist Sexual Energy Massage is one t of the most powerful experiences on the sexual and sensual journey. The depth of healing, release, pleasure and sensation it offers confirms its connection between sexuality and spirituality.

At the bottom of this newsletter I’ve shared a beautiful experience of a Taoist Massage with you.

I will be teaching this in Durban, Sun 29th May.

As part of this lesson I will include how to use this professionally and incorporate it into healing work.

Taoist  Massage is available to men and women.  

 

IN THE WORLD

 

You can now follow me on Twitter: tantraevolution.

Please read my blog, www.TantricteacherAtLarge, find me on Facebook, join the group Sensual Reality, or visit the website www.sensualreality.co.za.

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

 

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

Taoist Sexual Energy Massage

Why you need to have this massage at least once in your lifetime

There are some pleasurable and exhilarating life experiences that most of us get to experience in one shape or another throughout our lives. Falling in love for the first time, getting married, our matric dance, first orgasm, certain foods, spiritual awakenings,having children, well, the list goes on and on.

Then we have the “bucket lists”. Lists of things we would like to achieve, acquire, or experience before we shuffle off of this mortal coil.

 

After having a Taoist Sexual Energy massage I have told the people that I love, and even the people that I like, and in fact anyone who will listen,this massage needs to go on your list. Whether it’s your life experience list, or your bucket list, if you have any regard for balancing out your energies, and opening your spirituality and sexuality to another dimension, this needs to go onto your list.

 

How do I describe it?

 

Firstly, it seems almost futile to try and explain in words the way your sexual energy, root chakra, creative essence gets new architecture within the structure of your physical existence during this massage.I have not often been in such an altered state of consciousness, and never during any form of sheerly physical massage.

Because it is so powerful, my only recommendation would be to go to a therapist who follows the specified and ancient massage completely accurately. This stuff is so powerful, it’s almost magical, and you need to be able to completely trust your therapist.

 

When the massage was explained to me, that I would be naked, it would begin with me lying on my back for some energy opening moves, that I would be asked to turn over twice during the massage, and that there are two genital moves, I felt comfortable understanding exactly what physically to expect.

 

The massage is very gentle, it isn’t like a sports massage, designed to release muscle by inducing any painful touch.I closed my eyes so I could really just go with the flow, and see where my root energy would travel, and where it would take me.

As it began, relaxation settled into me, grounding me to the earth, I felt heavy and full, and began to feel my energy  moved around by gentle touch.I felt the energy flowing like gentle electricity, tingling,my skin pre empting it’s arrival with gooseflesh. 

 

I felt myself slipping into an incredible meditative state, where my mind ceased chattering, and blue light danced like a screen saver behind my eye lids.

Then it builds. There’s no euphemism here, it is a sexual energy massage, and if you have ever as a woman felt a wave of sheer sexual tension and lust flowing through you, imagine that experience exponentially multiplied, and you will get a glimmer of understanding about the sensation built during the massage. About 7 times I was a whisper from orgasm, and then the energy is swirled out of your genitals down into your legs, up your spine, moved into your hips and heart.

 

 This is an ancient and incredibly powerful form of energy manipulation.

At one point, every inhibition or societal norm dropped away from my consciousness, with a rising of sexual heat and need that overwhelmed me.

 

And then it was moved again, swirled into every part of my body, my ankles, my feet, and even with such comfort it brought the sting of tears, into my arms and hands.

 I was asked to turn over again. I actually felt pinned down, really struggling with heaviness to turn over.

Some moves then began to make me shudder, or kick out. One especially, that opens the doorway to the heart made me feel like I wanted to punch or kick.

So incredible to go from sheer lust, to lashing out, to the sting of tears, to the glow of love and completion within a massage.

This is a lifetimes’ worth of energy experience, condensed into an ancient specialized massage.

I can’t explain much more, as the words just don’t fit. This is a place you go beyond words, beyond the things you think you know or understand.

And that is why it is my firm belief everyone needs to experience this at least once in their lifetime.

It is about sexual energy, without being about sex, or any of the boxes we need to put sex into.

I experienced an altered state, through the release and balancing of my sexual energy.

I am still buzzing and reaping the benefits of this massage 3 days later.

My creative energy is through the roof, and my sexual energy, well, when it calms down I will write about that too, as I am still experiencing the benefits of it!!!

 

I will give this a gift to everyone in my life that is willing to experience it. It will be my new form of present, a gift that gives to you long after the massage is over.

I am so grateful to have had this life altering energy experience and would recommend it to anyone wishing to expand their consciousness and raise the most powerful essence energy in their body.

I WILL…

May 13, 2011 in Uncategorized

I will bring you to the edge

I will melt you

I will explode you

I will penetrate every cell in your body

With my fingers, my tongue, my cock

I will make you gasp

I will make you cry

I will make you squirm

I will lick you, suck you, fuck you

Until there is no more

And then I will wring more from your body

And you implode with pleasure

I will suck your clit until it can’t be touched

And then I will stroke it with a feather

I will fill your ass and your pussy

And fuck shivers through your body

Feeling each one with my cock

And when there can be no more

I will hold you

Until …

UNIVERSAL TANTRA

May 12, 2011 in Uncategorized

I’m sitting in a funky coffee shop in Bloemfontein on Tues night with Elize and her colleagues. We’re getting to know each other a little, they’re very curious about me, what I do, and more than a little nervous about the talk I’m going to give a little later.

They keep telling me how conservative Bloemfontein is, how conservative the women coming to the talk are.

I’m not helping much by making sexual jokes and pushing the boundaries, having fun and watching everybody laughing a little more.

 

The talk begins with one of the women saying a prayer, and my thoughts are going to how a talk on Tantra, sex and sensuality is going to impact on these women.

From the beginning of this journey I was determined never to use euphemisms, never refer to things, and allude to things.

If we’re talking about sex, we’re talking about sex.

If a workshop is on Expanded Orgasm, it’s on Expanded Orgasm.

Let’s be open and honest.

 

So I begin my talk with telling them how nervous Elize and co were, we all have a laugh, and we can start talking.

The response is great, the comments afterwards are touching, and the interest is enormous.

 

Because…

The principles of Tantra Evolution are universal.

 

Because…

We are all sexual and sensual beings.

 

Because…

We’d all love to have, dream about, yearn for and aspire to have the deepest intimacy, the most pleasure, the greatest excitement and the most love we can.

 

Because…

The journey into Tantra Evolution is for EVERYBODY!

 

Whether you’re in a relationship or single, whether your orientation is straight, gay or otherwise, whether you’re monogamous or not, whether you’re religious or spiritual or not.

 

Whatever you are, whatever you do, wherever in your life you are, whatever you come to the sexual journey for.

Whether it’s to heal or to grow, to explore and experience, to stretch yourself, to find the truth of yourself, to expand your relationship, to increase your pleasure, to learn more techniques, to learn basic techniques, to experience the connection between sex and spirit, whatever it is that draws you to this.

 

Because…

It’s the essence of every one of us.

It’s what created us.

It’s the life-force that flow within us.

It’s the source of creativity.

It’s the power that connects us, body, heart and soul.

 

Because…

There is space for all of us.

There’s a way to be found for everybody to get something from this.

To expand yourself and for your heart to be more open.

 

Because…

It’s based on love.

LOVE.

Not an airy-fairy idea, not a vague notion of a concept, not wishful thinking.

 

Something real, practical, do-able.

Something we all, at heart, in our body, in our minds and in our souls, long for, yearn for, desire.

A path to guide us there, take us there, give us the steps to get there, help us see the signs and how to read them, use what we have to get there.

 

Because…

It’s for you, all of you, all of us.

 

Because…

It’s rooted in the principles of inclusion, of expansion.

Of saying that if you live with awareness, with consciousness, with allowing, with wanting the fullness, all of who you are, with no judgement, with honouring, there’s a way for this to be part of your life.

 

And in this you are, you cannot be, anything but beautiful.

You cannot have anything other than love and pleasure and joy and excitement and fun and wonder and adventure and peace and connection and knowing.

 

And in this you cannot but feel the love, the power, the absolute ecstasy, of being fully human, fully beautiful, created in the image of, an expression of…

 

 

WORKSHOPS

 

JO’BURG

 

14th MAY: SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY

 

The Super Sensual Saturday was so good, so much fun, such amazing experiences had that we’re doing it again.

EXPANDED ORGASM at 10:30 am, R300/person.

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE at 1:00 pm, R1800/couple.

R2000 for both life-changing workshop experiences, booking is essential.

 

DURBAN 

 

The Durban workshops will be at The Bedroom in Hillcrest and Umhlanga, the venue for the Massage workshops will be confirmed soon.

More info : 031 561 6766, the bedroom.co.za.

The evening workshops are for singles and couples, massage workshops are couples only.

 

The Bedroom Hillcrest :

MON 23RD: THE ART OF SEX, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

TUES 24TH: HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX, 1 pm, R100 p/p

TUES 24TH: EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

 

The Bedroom Umhlanga:

WED 25TH: TANTRA, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

THURS 26TH, CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

 

The Blue House:

SAT 28TH: TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, 1:00 pm, R1800/couple

SUN 29TH: TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, 11 am, R1800/couple

Special offer of both massage workshops: R2500

 

 LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

I am so excited to release my new audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex.

This 3 CD set includes talks on Tantra, Sex Education, Sensuality, Men, Women, Orgasms, Self-Love, Relationships, Sexual Healing, Sexual Bodywork and more.

It’s so important to have a forum to talk about sex in an open and non-judgemental way. 

The talks on the CD’s will give you some great perspectives, information and open the door to talking about many aspects of sexuality.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX is R280, postage included.

To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard Bank, Rivonia, Code: 001255, Acc: 420006427.

 

 

 

IN THE WORLD

 

You can now follow me on Twitter: tantraevolution.

Please read my blog, www.TantricteacherAtLarge, find me on Facebook, join the group Sensual Reality, or visit the website www.sensualreality.co.za.

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher &Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

Desire Newsletter

May 7, 2011 in Uncategorized

During the recording of Let’s Talk About Sex, I revisited many of the articles written over the years. They are as relevant now, as many questions linked to the topics have been asked recently in talks, lessons on the radio and other forums.

 

This is makes up part of what is one of the most fascinating and elusive questions we ask, ‘What do Women Want?”. I don’t have all the answers, but I’ve definitely learned a few things over the years. Here’s an aspect of the answer…

 

 WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

 

This is one of the greatest questions of life. The answers are sometimes simple, sometimes not. They change, often, which is one of the complexities of the question.

Over the years I’ve come to learn a few things about what women want.

She wants to be desired.

Simple!

She wants to be desired.

And she has to know that you do, she has to feel it.

You have to communicate it, with words, with actions.

It’s vital to tell her, sometimes in words that really express your lust, from the centre of your sexuality, from the fire.

If she feels the fire, she feel special, she feels wanted, beautiful, powerful, POWERFUL!

And here’s where it grows, it’s not just about the sex, it’s linked to the heart.

This is what gives it meaning, sustenance and substance.

Because as important as sex is, as much as it defines us as men and women, there’s more. It all revolves around the heart.

It was once said that when sex works it’s 20% of a relationship, when it doesn’t it’s 90%.

Without that basic intimacy it become impossible to deal with other issues.

But when she feels desired, and that’s an important word, not jus wanted, but desired, because there’s depth there, she feels loved. She can be the Slut Goddess, she can be all that she is, express all the aspects of her being, sexually, sensually, emotionally, spiritually.

In your desire, you create the safety for her, the space for expression.

You need to tell her, you need to show her.

Your words need to come from the heart, then she knows they’re true.

 

 

WORKSHOPS

 

JO’BURG

 

14th MAY: SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY

 

The Super Sensual Saturday was so good, so much fun, such amazing experiences had that we’re doing it again.

EXPANDED ORGASM at 10:30 am, R300/person.

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE at 1:30 pm, R1800/couple.

R2000 for both life-changing workshop experiences, booking is essential.

 

DURBAN 

 

The Durban workshops will be at The Bedroom in Hillcrest and Umhlanga, the venue for the Massage workshops will be confirmed soon.

More info : 031 561 6766, the bedroom.co.za.

The evening workshops are for singles and couples, massage workshops are couples only.

 

The Bedroom Hillcrest :

MON 23RD: THE ART OF SEX, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

TUES 24TH: HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEX, 1 pm, R100 p/p

TUES 24TH: EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, 6:30 pm, R300 p/p

 

The Bedroom Umhlanga:

WED 25TH: TANTRA, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

THURS 26TH, CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, 6:30 pm, R300p/p

 

SAT 28TH: TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, 10:30 am, R1800/couple

SUN 29TH: TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, 11 am, R1800/couple

Special offer of both massage workshops: R2500

 

 LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

I am so excited to release my new audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex.

This 3 CD set includes talks on Tantra, Sex Education, Sensuality, Men, Women, Orgasms, Self-Love, Relationships, Sexual Healing, Sexual Bodywork and more.

It’s so important to have a forum to talk about sex in an open and non-judgemental way. 

The talks on the CD’s will give you some great perspectives, information and open the door to talking about many aspects of sexuality.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX is R280, postage included.

To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard Bank, Rivonia, Code: 001255, Acc: 420006427.

 

 

 

IN THE WORLD

 

You can now follow me on Twitter: tantraevolution.

Please read my blog, www.TantricteacherAtLarge, find me on Facebook, join the group Sensual Reality, or visit the website www.sensualreality.co.za.

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher &Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

I WONDER

May 6, 2011 in Uncategorized

I wonder what your mouth tastes like

I wonder if you keep your eyes closed as I undress you

And the, of course, I wonder what you look like naked

I wonder what your skin feels like as I stroke the curves and valleys of your body

I wonder if you’ll breathe in as I bite your nipples

I wonder what your pussy tastes like as I dip my tongue into your pink wetness

I wonder what noises you make as you come with your clit in my mouth

I wonder if you’ll relax as I turn you over and spread your cheeks to kiss the flower of your anus

I wonder what I’ll see in your eyes as I slide my cock into you

I wonder what you’ll feel like, breathe like, sound like as I fuck you long and slow and deep and hard and fast

And as I reach to kiss you

I wonder at the wonder of you.

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

May 3, 2011 in Uncategorized

I am so excited to release my new audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex.

This 3 CD set includes talks on Tantra, Sex Education, Sensuality, Men, Women, Orgasms, Self-Love, Relationships, Sexual Healing, Sexual Bodywork and more.

It’s so important to have a forum to talk about sex in an open and non-judgemental way. 

The talks on the CD’s will give you some great perspectives and open the door to talking about many aspects of sexuality.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX is R280, postage included.

To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard bank, Rivonia, Code: 001255, Acc: 420006427.

TANTRIC FREEDOM

May 3, 2011 in Uncategorized

FREEDOM

 

We generally see Tantra as being connected to sex, about sex, sexual practices, which it is. In fact, Tantric teachings cover every aspect of life; we’ve hooked on to the sexual side of this.

But there’s a purpose to the practices.

It’s not only about increasing pleasure and intimacy, releasing sexual blockages, healing etc. All of this happens, radically, wonderfully, in life-changing ways.

But the real purpose of Tantra is freedom.

Freedom of heart, of body, of spirit, of the mind.

 

So what does this actually mean?

It means that we become free from patterns, from programmes, from decisions and actions based on illusion, free from control of external beliefs, free from the limitations of social beliefs, free from fear, free from loving out of need, free from being less than beautiful…

 

We become free to soar, to fly, to explore, to grow, to heal, to create, to share, to connect, to feel, to see beauty, to live, feel beauty, to be brave, to expand, to challenge…

 

We become free to be fully human.

 

This freedom is dangerous.

It challenges so much of what we believe, or rather what we think we believe.

For most of what we believe, we’ve never really looked at, we accept the ‘way it should be’, without really thinking about is that the way it should be?

Because more times than not, this allows systems of living to continue and perpetrate mediocrity and unhappiness, constriction and control, rather than the adventure of stepping beyond the boundaries.  

We accept the comfort rather than the truth.

For if we look inside, if we look at our relationships, whatever they are, marriage, living together, friends with benefits, whatever the space we live in, we know the truth.

But it’s often too uncomfortable to really look at, talk about, never mind even consider thinking about changing.

 

This freedom forces us to be aware, to be conscious, to wake up.

And in this comes its responsibility.

Because when we claim freedom, we’re not claiming the right to do whatever we please.

We claim the right to go beyond the boundaries, to shatter the illusions, to stretch the limitations, to go beyond the beyond.

With an awareness that says that the experiences we choose to have, the ideas we wish to explore and express, the lives we’d like to live, are all with a greater purpose.

To free ourselves.

Doing something just because we can doesn’t have much consciousness.

What we get from these experiences doesn’t really touch anything in a way to enhance us, to help us see more of who we are, be more of who we are.

They just happen.

And they’re gone.

And we’re unchanged by them.

 

But when we have a purpose to step out of the narrows into expansion, the choices we make on what we do, how we do are about expansion and possibilities.

 

We free our minds to look at different ways of thinking, of living, at philosophies, and their practices, of other lifestyles, cultures, learning and beliefs.

We free ourselves to think for ourselves.

Which means we have to think, not simply accept.

 

We free our hearts to love.

To love in ways we never thought possible, to depths we never thought possible.

To see what love really is, what feelings and emotions really are, to look at what we believe love is, without many of the limitations, the boxes and patterns we’ve accepted.

 

We free our bodies.

To experience pleasure and connection in new and different ways.

To explore the possibilities we know exist within us.

To know the power of sensuality.

To look at the true purpose of this energy and the practices of pleasure and sensation through eyes and bodies that are constantly expanding and deepening.

 

We free our spirits to soar.

We see the connection between sexuality and spirituality.

We see the sacred spark within us, and others.

We free ourselves to see the connections rather than the separations.

 

We free ourselves to become whole, explorers on the wonder-full path.

This is the next step in our evolution.

Tantra Evolution.

 

 

 

OUT AND ABOUT

 

I will be giving a talk in Vereeneging this Sat, 7th May, Bloemfontein on Tues 10th May.

I hope to have dates for Durban and Cape Town finalized soon.

 

SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY 14th MAY

 

The Super Sensual Saturday was so good, so much fun, such amazing experiences had that we’re doing it again.

EXPANDED ORGASM at 10:30 am, R300/person.

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE at 1:30 pm, R1800/couple.

R2000 for both life-changing workshop experiences, booking is essential.

 

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