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Walk With the Fire

June 20, 2011 in Uncategorized

‘She kissed me. It was the natural brush of lips against skin. I imagined prehistoric wolves making the same gesture with their snouts before they howled as men, women and children sat shivering in their caves’. Gone Fishin’, Walter Mosley.

 

And a man and a woman stood up and walked out into the darkness. They had the fire in their hearts to guide them as they sought the wolves, so that they too might howl with ancient passion. So that they too might feel the heart of the beast coursing in their veins. So that they too might greet the dragon and drink its blood. So they too might look into the eyes of the tiger and feel the earth shake as it roars in the night. So that they too might journey into the desert to meet the shimmering form of the angels. So that they too might stand deep in the montains and hear the heart of the earth beat. So that they too might feel the flow of the waters of the world and hear the secrets of the moon. So that they too might feel the wind blow right through them. So that they too might go deep into themselves, so deep to touch the source of being, so deep to feel the fear and awe of a moment of knowing. So that they too may become free as they walk with the darkness and the light, hand in hand, swirling in the mystery of being. So that they too might sit with those who will listen to their tales. So that they too might lay their hands on your body so that you might feel the power of who they have become. So that they too might share the secrets of an ancient journey to the awakening of today’s dawn. So that they too might show you where the path begins. So that you too might walk with the fire in your heart. Jonti Searll.

 

 

 

THE G-SPOT DVD

 

The G-spot is one of the great mysteries of female sexuality. It’s surrounded by myth and misunderstanding.

Well, after so many requests I am going to make a DVD, what the G-spot is, how to find it, internal orgasms, healing etc.

I’m looking for models, women and couples, not all involving nudity, some just to talk, to appear in the DVD. You will get free lessons in finding your/her G-spot, massage and stimulation training, healing to release blockages that may prevent you experiencing the pleasure possible etc.

Please contact me if you’re interested.

 

DOUBLE MASSAGE

 

We are beginning to experiment with an incredible two hour Double Tantric Massage. This involves 4 hands on your body, two male and two female. If you’d like to have this experience, at no charge, as we’re still seeing what to include and, please let me know.

 

WORKSHOPS

 

JHB

 

I’ve been asked for an Art Of Sex Workshop in Jo’burg, Tues 21st June, 7pm, R300/person.

A fun and informative workshop looking at practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, communication, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did.

 

SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY, EXPANDED ORGASM  and SENSUAL and EROTIC MASSAGE, 18th June

 

CAPE TOWN 

The Cape Town workshops will be held at The BP Wellness Centre, Llandudno.

It’s a beautiful and comfortable space, with a spectacular view.

Please share the info with your friends.

 

Mon 27th June, 7 pm Expanded Orgasm, R300/person, singles and couples.

Tues 28th June, 7 pm Tantra Evolution, R300/person, singles and couples.

Wed 29th June, The G-night, a practical experience of the G-spot, healing, release, deep states of pleasure, R300/person.

Thurs 30th June, The Art Of Sex, 7 pm, practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did, R300/person, singles and couples.

Sat 2nd July, 11 am, Tantric Sensual Massage, a practical experience for couples, R1800/couple.

Sun 3rd July, 1 pm, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, the connection between sex and spirituality, R1800/couple.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

Let’s Talk About Sex is R280, 3 CD’s, just under 4 hours long, R280.

‘You just have to listen to this!!!’

 

 

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

 

In Praise Of…

June 13, 2011 in Uncategorized

I have the amazing honour spending most of my time with women.

 

I know you.

I’ve listened to your words. I’ve heard your pain and your hurt, I’ve heard your dreams and desires, I’ve heard your fears and desires.

I’ve sat and listened to you as you’ve spoken of your needs and wants.

I’ve heard your anger and frustration.

I’ve heard what your heart has to say.

 

I’ve learned the secrets of your body.

I’ve been shown the pleasure possibilities that dwell within you, often deep, often hidden and unacknowledged.

I’ve been endowed with gifts that have allowed me the privilege of showing you that pleasure.

 

I’ve helped you heal.

I’ve shown you the path to your truth, guided you on the steps to wholeness, to freedom and release.

I’ve shared my understanding, my knowledge and wisdom.

 

You’ve taught me of love.

You’ve helped me understand much of the mystery of life.

You’ve shown me the way in to the secrets of the world.

 

I say this to you.

You are the manifestation of the Goddess.

Such beauty lives within you, such beauty in your body.

Such power swirls around you.

Such courage rises in your heart.

Such desire flows through you.

Such fire burns inside you.

Such passion lights you.

Such strength holds you.

 

Go beyond.

Take the courage, the strength, the power.

Allow the passion and desire to guide you.

Free yourself from limitation, release yourself from inhibition.

Claim your pleasure, your freedom.

Claim yourself.

Claim your beauty.

 

Live the life of a Goddess.

 

All I know, I offer to you…

 

 

 

 

THE G-SPOT DVD

 

The G-spot is one of the great mysteries of female sexuality. It’s surrounded by myth and misunderstanding.

Well, after so many requests I am going to make a DVD, what the G-spot is, how to find it, internal orgasms, healing etc.

I’m looking for models, women and couples, not all involving nudity, some just to talk, to appear in the DVD. You will get free lessons in finding your/her G-spot, massage and stimulation training, healing to release blockages that may prevent you experiencing the pleasure possible etc.

Please contact me if you’re interested.

 

WORKSHOPS

 

JHB

 

I’ve been asked for an Art Of Sex Workshop in Jo’burg, Tues 21st June, 7pm, R300/person.

A fun and informative workshop looking at practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, communication, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did.

 

SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY, EXPANDED ORGASM  and SENSUAL and EROTIC MASSAGE, 18th June

 

CAPE TOWN 

The Cape Town workshops will be held at The BP Wellness Centre, Llandudno.

It’s a beautiful and comfortable space, with a spectacular view.

Please share the info with your friends.

 

Mon 27th June, 7 pm Expanded Orgasm, R300/person, singles and couples.

Tues 28th June, 7 pm Tantra Evolution, R300/person, singles and couples.

Wed 29th June, The G-night, a practical experience of the G-spot, healing, release, deep states of pleasure, R300/person.

Thurs 30th June, The Art Of Sex, 7 pm, practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did, R300/person, singles and couples.

Sat 2nd July, 11 am, Tantric Sensual Massage, a practical experience for couples, R1800/couple.

Sun 3rd July, 1 pm, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, the connection between sex and spirituality, R1800/couple.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

Let’s Talk About Sex is R280, 3 CD’s, just under 4 hours long, R280.

‘You just have to listen to this!!!’

 

 

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

EROTIC WRITING

June 10, 2011 in Uncategorized

VELVET FRUIT

 

Velvet fruit of the night

Darkening dusky pink

Swelling pleasure bud

Juice welling from secret depths

To bathe my tongue in mystery

Oyster flesh I devour

Goddess cunt

The altar at which I worship.

 

THE SECRET

 

Lie before me on this altar

Show me the mystery

Show me the secret

These pink, red, crimson folds that are at the entrance to paradise

This oyster born from the ocean of pleasure

That bestows sacred blessing on those who would swim in the secret sea

That draws my body, my mind, my heart, my soul

That fills my waking thoughts and drifts through my silken dreams

That draws my gaze in awe, in worship

In these moments of silent prayer, of gratitude

For you, the Goddess. 

 

JOURNEY

June 8, 2011 in Uncategorized

Come on a journey into the heart of passion

Come on a journey into the depth of intimacy

Come on a journey into the fire of vulnerability

Come on a journey into the ocean of pleasure

Come on a journey into the maelstrom of love

Come on a journey into the truth of darkness

Come on a journey into the power of freedom

Come on a journey into the expansion of ecstasy

Come on a journey into the truth of awareness

Come on a journey into the beauty of Tantra.

MEN MAKING LOVE

June 6, 2011 in Uncategorized

Something very beautiful has happened in the past few weeks.

AND IT’S COME FROM MEN!

 

‘I want to make love with my wife, not just have sex with her’.

 

I have received emails, calls, and a few people have even come to see me.

To learn to make love with their wives.

Not just have sex.

 

So why is this such an event?

Well, in no particular order of importance…

 

There are times when I do a fair amount of man bashing.

Most of the people who come to the talks I give are women. Most of the people who come to workshops are women. Most of the calls, emails and enquiries I get are from women.

I often say that ‘I’m preaching to the converted’.

I’ve given blow-job lessons at so many bachelorette parties and ladies nights, not once in 12 years of teaching has a bachelor party asked about a talk on giving her pleasure.

The amount of men’s groups I’ve spoken to over the years can be counted on my fingers.

There are times when, if I had the answer to the question ‘How do I get him there?’ To a workshop, a talk, even just to talk about the issues, not commit to anything, just come and talk, I wouldn’t be able to cope with the amount of people.

 

I have to share an image that just came to mind, makes me chuckle.

On an Expanded Orgasm workshop a while ago, when we demonstrate the techniques for men, all the women, and men if they want, get a dildo to practice on.

There were about 8 or 10 women that night, some with partners, and a young guy, who came on his own, which was fantastic. So there are all these women learning all the different strokes on the dildos and this guy’s eyes were bugging out of his head, didn’t know where to look first. We all had a good laugh, he learnt some wonderful stuff that night and left with some amazing feedback from the women there, about how they wished men knew some of this stuff when they were younger.

 

Back to the serious stuff.

 

Then comes the ego response. ‘I can teach him a thing or two, what does he think he knows, I know it all etc etc etc etc’.

This comes from fear. Quite simple.

Linked to this is embarrassment, shame, not ‘doing what a man should’.

 

It’s fascinating that we’ll go and get business advice, financial advice, car advice, golf lessons, fishing advice…

We might even ask for directions in a pinch.

Sex and relationships… No Way!

 

How do we know it all, where did the knowledge come from? How are we expected to know what we need about the most complex aspect of life?

Well, we’re supposed to know, we just do.

What nonsense!!!

 

And here are these guys who want to learn to MAKE LOVE TO THEIR WIVES!

 

They want the connection, the intimacy, the sensuality, the love, the heart, the spirit.

They want it for themselves.

They want it for her.

 

They’ve discovered a truth.

That fulfillment comes from the heart.

Not from the orgasm, (which so many women are not having anyway. And in truth, despite what you may think, you actually have no idea if she’s faking it).

 

I’ve come to define sex as a goal-oriented genital activity.

The goal usually being orgasm.

Sex is often not intimate. Especially if your eyes are closed, or your in some fantasy about someone or something you saw on the net today.

There’s no real connection there, no intimacy.

The body underneath you or on top of you could be anybody, it wouldn’t make much difference.

 

Making love defines itself.

MAKING. LOVE.

At the end of the experience we will have made love. There will be more love between us, within us, around us.

We will have been present, conscious, connected.

We will have shared something that expands us.

We both become more.

We feel.

 

To many men the world of emotion and feeling is a distant planet populated by aliens. It has nothing to do with the ‘real world’.

 

Here’s something.

That is the real world.

One thing the events of the past few years have shown us is how precarious so much of life is, how the physical and financial can change in a moment, how quickly we can lose so much.

 

The feelings are real.

The love is real.

And that’s what makes so much possible.

 

So what’s happened in these relationships?

The first thing is something that almost every man wants. (And it’s actually easy to have, if you’re willing to learn the secret).

They are having more sex than they ever thought possible.

They are doing more things, crossing more boundaries, exploring more fantasies in so many ways.

And a lot of it is coming from the women.

 

Then there’s the sharing, the talking, the communication, the listening, the being heard, the quality of time together, the belonging, the connection, the safety, the passion, the desire, the adventure, the excitement.

The place to share themselves, who they really are, hopes, dreams, fears and flaws.

With safety, honesty and openness.

 

These are men.

Real Men.

Sexual Super Heroes!

 

 

LEARNING

 

We can learn at workshops, private lessons. We can learn through the DVD’s I’ve produced. I’ve also developed on-line programmes for men, women and couples.

 

FRIDAY EROTICA

 

Thank you for your comments and sharing about the erotic poems I’m posting on Facebook and my blog:  http://blogs.health24.com/TantricTeacherAtLarge, the discussions are cool.

 

WORKSHOPS

 

JHB

 

TANTRA FOR COUPLES, starting 8th June

FOR MEN, starting  9th June

SUPER SENSUAL SATURDAY, EXPANDED ORGASM  and SENSUAL and EROTIC MASSAGE, 18th June

 

CAPE TOWN 

 

Mon 27th June, 7 pm Expanded Orgasm, R300/person, singles and couples.

Tues 28th June, 7 pm Tantra Evolution, R300/person, singles and couples.

Wed 29th June, The G-night, a practical experience of the G-spot, healing, release, deep states of pleasure, R300/person.

Thurs 30th June, The Art Of Sex, 7 pm, practical sexual skills, oral, positions, erotic exploration, whatever you’d like to ask about sex and never did, R300/person, singles and couples.

Sat 2nd July, 11 am, Tantric Sensual Massage, a practical experience for couples, R1800/couple.

Sun 3rd July, 1 pm, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, the connection between sex and spirituality, R1800/couple.

 

LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX

 

Let’s Talk About Sex is R280, 3 CD’s, just under 4 hours long, R280.

‘You just have to listen to this!!!’

 

 

 

 

DVD’S

 

I have a few DVD sets available at the special price of R600 for 3 titles, Expanded Orgasm, Yoni Massage and Simple Pleasures.

 

   I WISH YOU SO MUCH PLEASURE, SO MUCH FUN!

Jonti Searll

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.

ENCHANTRESS OF THE NIGHT

June 3, 2011 in Uncategorized

Woman of magic

Woman of mystery

In this sacred circle we stand naked

There is a silence and a stillness that surrounds us

In the slow heartbeat of a moment of eternity

You reveal yourself as goddess of the night

 

In your eyes

Is a portal to another world

Eyes that open me, reach into me

Eyes that draw my heart, my soul

Eyes that lay the core of me bare

And begin to take me

Eyes that bring me to your body

That you spread for me

A heat that surrounds me

Flames of pleasure that melt me

Burn away time

Burn away my mortality

You arch against me

Fuelling your passion with my blazing body

A celestial sound

A crack of pure sexual lightning runs through my flaming being

And in a scream of ecstasy I am no more

And you are there

Enchantress of the dark, of the light

You are there

At the gateway to the vanishing point

You are there

And in my trembling return to form

You are the breath and the kiss that guide me back

To release me to the world once more.

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