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The Goddess Newsletter

September 26, 2011 in Uncategorized

We talk a lot about The Goddess in Tantra. Who is she, this Goddess?
 
She is mystical and magical, ethereal, an ideal to aspire to, a concept of Woman, a teacher, a healer, a priestess, a sacred sexual being. She is strong, powerful, brave, beautiful, sensual, sexual, spiritual. An adventuress, a tigress, a dragon, a saint, a slut…
 
She’s also very real.
She looks remarkably like you.
She doesn’t have a ‘media body’. She doesn’t have ‘perfect hair or face’. She hasn’t been airbrushed and photoshopped to magazine-advert ‘standard’.
She’s flawed and blemished and scarred and chipped and plump and scratched.
 
So what makes her a Goddess?
She’s been on, is on a journey.
She’s healed and healing, she’s growing, she’s questioning, she’s releasing,  she’s reaching, she’s travelling, she’s connecting, she’s becoming…
 
She’s peeling away, sometimes with painful tears, the layers that prevent her true self from showing. She’s releasing what she’s been told she needs to do to be loved. She’s seeing the currency and the price for what she thought was, been told was love.
 
She’s freeing herself from the expectation of others as she sees the price of life. The cost is the parts of herself she has to hide, to repress, to lock deep inside until they wither to formless wisps of memory. The price of such a life of illusion often being no more than a cage of control.
 
She’s examining her life, her thoughts, her words, her deeds in the light of an ever-growing truth. Her eyes are seeing more than ever, each day a knowing that expands as she journeys deep into herself, and allows this inner vision to look at her life and her world anew.
 
She’s given, giving herself permission to pleasure. To be a consciously acknowledged and self owned sensual and sexual being. She frees herself from the narrow limitations of pleasure. She reclaims her body, she connects with her fire, her passion, her desire. Through her body she feels her beauty, her power. She allows herself to give, to receive, to share with a heart open to choice.
 
She’s filled with fear as she walks new paths.
She’s filled with courage as she walks new paths.
She’s filled with knowing as she walks new paths.
Knowing that this journey has to be made.
 
The Goddess is the one who sets her feet on the path. Her life is healing, revealing, growing, expanding, connecting…
The Goddess is the woman who allows Her Self, who lives Her Self.
 
CAPE TOWN WORKSHOPS
We’ve had to change a few things in the workshop programme, due to the availability of the venue, and we’ve also included some really exciting new work which will help you increase your pleasure enormously…
The new venue is:
Lifeworks at the Munitz Institute
55 Somerset Road
Greenpoint
Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop, and an extra 10% discount for all bookings made before the 30th September.
 
PRINCIPLES OF TANTRA EVOLUTION AND EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, TUES OCT 11TH, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES
This workshop begins with the principles of Tantra Evolution, which gives a framework for relationships and sexual experiences and then moves into a beautiful practical expression of this in the expanded orgasmic wave. This teaches you the power of getting out of the trap of sexual goals, and expand your pleasure into a deep orgasmic state, for men and women.
 
THE ART OF LOVEMAKING, INCLUDING SLOW UNION AND THE LOVE DANCE, WED 12THOCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES
This workshop focuses on sexual skills, beginning with the exquisite art of oral pleasure for men and women. Slow Union and The Love Dance, based on years of research, show you how to heighten and intensify intimacy and pleasure and give you keys for women to orgasm during lovemaking.
 
CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, THE G-SPOT AND FEMALE EJACULATION, THURS 13THOCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES
This workshop will guide you in techniques to build and use your sexual energy for more intense self- pleasuring experiences, sexual meditation, healing and creativity. We will also look at what the g-spot really is, how to find yours/hers, and female ejaculation
 
TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, SAT 15THOCT, 11 AM, R1800/COUPLE
TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, SUN 16THOCT, 1 PM, R1800/COUPLE
 
DVD SPECIAL (UNTIL 30TH SEPTEMBER)
We have 6 beautiful DVD’s and the insightful audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex. The DVD’s are: Expanded Orgasm, Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage, Simple Pleasures, An Intro to Tantra. And Lingam Massage
The special offer: R250 each, R200 for more than 2, buy the full set for R1000 and get one free.
To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard Bank, Rivonia, Code 001255, Acc 420006427
 
SEXPO JHB
Please come visit and chat with us at our stand at SEXPO…
Tantra Evolution and Bella Rouge are offering some very exciting events at SEXPO. We will be doing live sensual massage demonstrations daily, and in conjunction with Lifeform Studios, beautiful body casts….
Bella Rouge has a great range of toys and lubricants.
 
MASSAGE RETREAT
We would love to host a massage retreat near Durban, please let us know about possible venues.
 
We so look forward to sharing with you, and wish you so much pleasure..
Jonti & Anne-Marie, www.tantraevolution.com

Oct Events

September 12, 2011 in Uncategorized

  

 

 

Oh there is so much exciting happening over the next month!

We are teaching our first workshops in Pretoria, the details are below.

We have three new DVD’s available, SEXPO coming up, workshops with new info and connections as we continuously bring new understandings and connections that we discover and learn about to share with you.

 

JOBURG WORKSHOPS

 

EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, THURS 15TH SEPT, 7 PM, THE BEDROOM, PARKHURST, R300/PERSON.

The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING, TUES 20TH SEPT, 7 PM, THE BEDROOM, PARKHURST, R300/PERSON.

A fun and exciting evening of sexual techniques including oral pleasure for men and women, self-pleasuring, and for the first time ever the incredible possibilities of Slow Union. This way of making love transports you to deep states of pleasure and intimacy and opens a doorway to the sexual-spiritual connection. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, SAT 24TH SEPT, 10:30 AM, THE BEDROOOM, PARKHURST, R2000/COUPLE.

Step into the exciting world of Tantric Sensual Massage. This is a journey that offers pleasure possibilities that can take you to higher levels of consciousness and deep intimacy and connection with your partner and so much more…

This is a practical day for couples.

The Massage includes: Energy Connection and Massage, Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch, Full Body Sensual Massage, Building the Sexual Fire, Yoni/Lingam Massage and more…

 

PRETORIA WORKSHOPS

 

INTRO TO TANTRA: MON 19TH SEPTEMBER

EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE: WED SEPT 21ST

 

These workshops will be held at PERMISSION GRANTED, IRENE.

Contact Lee-Ann, 083 274 7491, leejac@mweb.co.za, for booking.

 

 

SEXPO JO’BURG

 

There are still a few slots available for massage models for SEXPO. This is an exciting adventure, a great experience and so much fun.

There is also the possibility of some body painting, men and women, as part of tantrevolution.

We are giving half-price vouchers for the 1st day of SEXPO in Joburg, 29th Sept, please email us if you’d like this gift.

 

CAPE TOWN

 

AN INTRODUCTION TO TANTRA EVOLUTION, MON OCT 10TH, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, TUES OCT 11TH, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING, INCLUDING SLOW UNION, WED 12TH OCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, THE G-SPOT AND FEMALE EJACULATION, THURS 13TH OCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, SAT 15TH OCT, 11 AM, R1800/COUPLE

TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, SUN 16TH OCT, 1 PM, R1800/COUPLE

 

Venue will be comfirmed shortly, there are discounts available for attending more than one workshop.

 

MASSAGE RETREAT

 

We are planning a weekend MASSAGE RETREAT in Oct, this will probably be at a beautiful venue near Durban.

 

NEW DVD’S

 

We are so excited about the new DVD’s, SENSUAL MASSAGE FOR HIM AND HER and LINGAM MASSAGE, Tantric Sexual Massage for men, which includes showing how to take a man to orgasm without him ejaculating, making male multiple orgasm possible. These are available on the special offer of R500, which includes Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage and Lingam Massage.

 

 

 SPRING SPECIALS:  DVD’S

 

We have 5 beautiful DVD’s and the insightful audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex. The DVD’s are: Expanded Orgasm, Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage, Simple Pleasures and An Intro to Tantra.

I have 5 DVD’s and a new Audio Book.

The DVD’s are Expanded Orgasm, teaches you the technique for each other.

Simple Pleasures – Oral and Manual Techniques for both of you.

Sensual Massage is a full-body massage lesson.

Yoni Massage shows you how to find the G-spot and deep stimulation for heightened states of pleasure.

An Intro to Tantra talks about what Tantra is, then guides you through a range of experiences that focus on sensuality, intimacy and connection.

Let’s Talk About Sex is 3 CD’s, talks on Tantra, Sensuality, Sexuality, Men, Women etc.

They are on special at the moment, R250 each, more than 2 comes down to R200 each and if you take the set for R1000 you get one free.

To order, make a payment to Sensual Reality, Standard Bank, Rivonia, Code 001255, Acc 420006427.

HEALING PROGRAMMES

 

10% discount on healing and growth programmes for couples and singles.

 

TANTRIC BODYWORK

 

We are offering Taoist Sexual Energy Massage for couples, you’re massaged at the same time, next to each other, sharing an experience of healing, relaxation and sensual beauty.

The Double Goddess Massage for women is helping so many women feel beautiful, powerful, feminine and free.

 

WEBSITE

 

www.tantraevolution.com

 

 

 

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.  

Context of Pleasure

September 6, 2011 in Uncategorized

  

 

 

Jonti writes…

I often talk about how important the context is for many sexual and sensual experiences.

Late last week I had a new understanding of this in relation to Tantra.

 

The definition of pleasure, the way in which it takes place, the situation that we allow it, is extremely limiting.

Our society has given us, and we have accepted the space that pleasure happens in, as a narrow expression of the possibilities.

Pleasure, sensual and sexual touching, which may or may not include orgasm, is allowed within a relationship, an affair, a pick-up, a one-night-stand etc.

We even accept this with a sex worker, we may not like it, but we’ve given tacit consent to it.

 

Then along comes Tantra.

Which says that you can have a pleasurable experience in a totally different context.

This is often without the expectation of reciprocation, which is one of the most important aspects of creating safety for women to have peak experiences.

The idea of pleasure being a gift, a sacred expression, an act of worship, challenges some of our core beliefs and limitations.

It’s scary, even terrifying for some people, it can turn their world upside down.

Because we don’t have a place to put it.

 

The Tantric journey is expressed in many ways, and the range of practices that teachers use is varied.

There is a way and a place for all of us.

But what we all have in common is creating a new context for pleasure in the world.

This includes the separation of love and sex. It takes us beyond illusion and expectation into a place of deeper honesty. It frees us from agendas. It allows us to explore the myriad aspects of ourselves through our sensuality and sexuality.

It gives us access to a world of energy and creative possibility beyond what we are often aware of.

It guides us to the connection between sexuality and spirituality, a concept which most of our world finds extremely challenging on its own.

It gives us the idea of sexual energy, how we can use this for more than ‘just sex’.

It gives us a guide to heightened states of pleasure, of elevated consciousness, of the depths within us.

It gives those not in relationships, or in unsatisfying and unfulfilled relationships, the possibility of sensual and sexual pleasure, access to their energy.

 

One of the most fearful aspects of these experiences is freedom.

As you go beyond the boundaries of sexual norms, you free yourself from many unspoken constraints, you challenge some of the deepest aspects of what we’ve been told is necessary for our society.

You take yourself beyond control.

You take yourself to choice and responsibility.

You take yourself to consciousness.

To thinking about relationships, about pleasure, why, how, what do I want, to give, to receive, to explore, to heal, to feel.

You free yourself to remove the masks that we’ve all put in place to be loved and accepted, the personas that hide the real you, the beautiful you.

You take yourself beyond judgement. To choice, to exploration, to growth, to expansion, to truth.

 

What is fascinating and wonderful is how many people are dipping their toes into the ocean of Tantra.

And each one of these, each one of us as teachers, healers, writers, practitioners, for each one that joins us on this journey, for a day or a lifetime, we make it possible for others to step onto the path.

With love, with celebration.

Knowing that the definition of love is not as limited as we’ve been told it is, that there are many ways to share moments, connections, pleasure, a heart, a look, a touch.

A context that allows us rather than forbids us.

A context that expands us rather than constricts us.

A context that frees us rather than limits us.

A context of love rather then fear.

It’s open, it’s honest, it’s clear.

And it’s here, in many ways, for all of us.

 

Anne-Marie writes…

Everything in our lives makes sense to us as individuals only when seen within a framework or context that we recognize. I watched the reaction of women at our stand in SEXPO with fascination, as most audibly gasped at the sight of a vagina/yoni being pleasured on the screen. Nearly every woman I spoke to about it, when seeing the yoni massage video in context ( the context being educating their husbands/partners/lovers in a practical how to method to bring immense pleasure through direct genital stimulation with a massage technique that can be learned step by step) then turned around and started watching the video. Seen in a different context, nearly EVERY woman was then able to watch it and discuss it with me.
What I learned from this is that within even the framework of an exhibition like SEXPO, people still need a context, a framework to give themselves permission to pleasure.
So many understand the context of porn, of all the images on open display at SEXPO, yet do not have a context for pleasure when it doesn’t fit the framework of what our culture teaches us about sexual pleasure.

 

JOBURG WORKSHOPS

 

EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, THURS 15TH SEPT, 7 PM, THE BEDROOM, PARKHURST, R300/PERSON.

The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING, TUES 20TH SEPT, 7 PM, THE BEDROOM, PARKHURST, R300/PERSON.

A fun and exciting evening of sexual techniques including oral pleasure for men and women, self-pleasuring, and for the first time ever the incredible possibilities of Slow Union. This way of making love transports you to deep states of pleasure and intimacy and opens a doorway to the sexual-spiritual connection. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, SAT 24TH SEPT, 10:30 AM, THE BEDROOOM, PARKHURST, R2000/COUPLE.

Step into the exciting world of Tantric Sensual Massage. This is a journey that offers pleasure possibilities that can take you to higher levels of consciousness and deep intimacy and connection with your partner and so much more…

This is a practical day for couples.

The Massage includes: Energy Connection and Massage, Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch, Full Body Sensual Massage, Building the Sexual Fire, Yoni/Lingam Massage and more…

 

SEXPO JO’BURG

 

We are giving half-price vouchers for the 1st day of SEXPO in Joburg, 29th Sept, please email us if you’d like this gift.

 

CAPE TOWN

 

AN INTRODUCTION TO TANTRA EVOLUTION, MON OCT 10TH, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

EXPANDED ORGASMIC WAVE, TUES OCT 11TH, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

THE ART OF LOVEMAKING, INCLUDING SLOW UNION, WED 12TH OCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING, THE G-SPOT AND FEMALE EJACULATION, THURS 13TH OCT, 7 PM, R300/PERSON, SINGLES AND COUPLES

TANTRIC SENSUAL AND EROTIC MASSAGE, SAT 15TH OCT, 11 AM, R1800/COUPLE

TAOIST SEXUAL ENERGY MASSAGE, SUN 16TH OCT, 1 PM, R1800/COUPLE

 

Venue will be comfirmed shortly, there are discounts available for attending more than one workshop.

MASSAGE RETREAT

 

We are planning a weekend MASSAGE RETREAT in Oct, this will probably be at a beautiful venue near Durban.

 

ADVENTURES

 

On Sat 11 Sep we’re shooting a new Sensual Massage DVD  as well as a Lingam Massage DVD, peak pleasure for men. If you’d like to be part of this exciting project please let us know. It’s an experience of freedom, healing, empowerment, pleasure and so much fun.

We’re also looking for people to be involved with Tantra Evolution at SEXPO, massage models, your face is not seen, body painting etc.

 

 SPRING SPECIALS:  DVD’S

 

We have 5 beautiful DVD’s and the insightful audio book, Let’s Talk About Sex. The DVD’s are: Expanded Orgasm, Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage, Simple Pleasures and An Intro to Tantra.

The special offer: R250 each, R200 for more than 2, buy the full set for R1000 and get one free.

To order, make a payment to: Sensual Reality, Standard Bank, Rivonia, Code 001255, Acc 420006427.

HEALING PROGRAMMES

 

10% discount on healing and growth programmes for couples and singles.

 

TANTRIC BODYWORK

 

We are offering Taoist Sexual Energy Massage for couples, you’re massaged at the same time, next to each other, sharing an experience of healing, relaxation and sensual beauty.

The Double Goddess Massage for women is helping so many women feel beautiful, powerful, feminine and free.

 

WEBSITE

 

www.tantraevolution.com

 

 

 

ABOUT JONTI SEARLL

Jonti is a Tantra Teacher & Sensualist. He offers workshops, talks, private and group lessons in the field of sexuality & sensuality. He assists singles, couples and groups in healing, creating a deeper connection, intimacy, pleasure and the magic between sex and spirituality. His tailor made programmes incorporate Tantra, coaching, bodywork, meditation, and practical exercises. He has extensive media coverage with the latest being the Sunday Times; Shape Magazine and You Pulse. He appears on Kaya FM on the first Wednesday of every month at 21.00.  

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