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Touch

March 26, 2012 in Uncategorized

Touch

 

I write this for Anne-Marie and myself, I hope that those around the world who do similar work will find echoes that resonate.

 

For we are a tribe, we’re linked by philosophy and practice, loosely or closer.

 

We touch people.

A Tantric Touch, a Heart Touch, a Love Touch.

 

The Touch comes from deep within us, it comes through us. It travels through our hearts and into our hands, into you.

This makes the Touch an expression of love. It becomes an act of love.

Each experience of this becomes Love-Making. At the end there is more love than when we began.

 

This Touch is an expression of energy. It has a frequency, it has a purpose, it has a form.

The energy goes beyond your skin, it goes deep into you. It touches the energy within you.

It touches the pain of the past.

It touches the hurt that sits within us.

It touches the blockages that hold us trapped.

It touches the patterns that constrict us.

 

With love as it’s guide, a conscious connection that we make at the moment of touch, it does s much.

 

It heals, it releases.

It frees us as the energy begins to flow.

The truth is we don’t fully know how. We can’t measure it.

But we know it happens.

We feel it.

And the truth is in our feelings.

And we see it.

We see the changes.

In our bodies, in our lives, in what we do, in how we do, in who we are.

We become more of who we are.

We see greater possibilities.

We have greater choice.

 

There is magic in this.

The magic of one human being sharing a moment of deep vulnerability, of trust.

Of love.

A time of opening, of vulnerability.

For the magic to be there, we both allow ourselves this vulnerability.

We show each other our hearts.

For this magic to flow, we both open to something greater than what we see.

But we know this magic.

We know it inside of us.

We feel it.

We feel where it takes us.

We allow it’s swirling mystical warmth to enter us, travel within us, travel us to the place where the gentleness and power of love makes it’s magic manifest.We have many experiences that embody and express this Touch, as well as workshops and lessons.

Taoist Massage, Tantric Massage, Double Massage, Yoni and Lingam Massage, Anal Massage…

 

The Water Flow Massage on Mon 2nd April is a beautiful experience of this Touch, a sensual journey of sharing and beauty.

 

We will be hosting a Free Talk on Wed 11 April on Sexual Healing, Sexual Bodywork and The Power of Sexual Energy for Healing and Manifestation, and on Sun 27th May we’re going to hold a Massage Event with a purpose. We’re going to create an intention and dedicate the massage to the purpose.

 

 We invite people around the world to join us in creating an affirmation, a statement that’s a conscious expression of love, healing, peace, pleasure and possibility.

Then we invite you to infuse the massage and the people involved with the energy of the affirmation, and at whatever time on the 27th, dedicate a massage to this.

 

Whether you do Tantric Massage, Sensual Massage, Taoist Massage, Sexual Massage, Kahuna, Deep-Tissue, Aromatherapy…

Whether you do this in a group, which is what we intend, to magnify and enhance the experience, or alone with a partner…

 

We’re going to set up a Tumblr blog that everybody will have access to, to post details of the events, pictures and clips of the events, the experiences that people have…

 

The first step is to create an affirmation, please send us your suggestions and input.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

 

Johannesburg

 

Water Flow Massage Experience

Mon 2 April, 7pm, R350/person

 

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

Wed 11 April, 7 pm

We will be hosting a Free Talk on Sexual Healing, Sexual Bodywork and The Power of Sexual Energy for Healing and Manifestation.

Venue: Haum of Yoga, Quartz Street, Fourways

 

 

The Expanded Orgasm Workshop

Thurs 12 April, 7 pm 

For singles and couples, R350 per person

The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. This workshop is for singles and couples.

orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. 

 

 

Bloemfontein Workshop & Session Dates 16 – 22 April?These are exciting times with a constant stream of learning, expanding and growing that we are honoured to share with you.

 

 

An Experience of Your Sexual Energy

Wed 25th April, 7pm, R350 per person

 

This evening is a direct experience of YOURSELF as a sensual and sexual being and gives you a direct and immediate experience of YOUR sexual energy.

This is a practical experience that guides you through understanding energy, feeling your energy, connecting with your sensuality, your breath, moving energy, feeling sexual fire energy and culminating in the incredible Energy Orgasm.

 

This is powerful stuff, expanding, releasing, healing and connecting you with the higher possibilities that the amazing world of sacred sexual energy contains.

All on your own.

 

Wear loose clothing, bring a mat, pillow and blanket.

 

 

Your Conscious Sexual Self

An exciting 4 private session journey for women into connecting and discovering your own sexuality through conscious self-pleasuring, breath work, sexual meditation and directly experiencing your sexual energy.

This is a one-on-one journey with Anne-Marie.

Cost is R1800.

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit 

www.tantraevolution.com

 

 

 

 

Massage Event

March 19, 2012 in Uncategorized

Massage Event

 

We are making May the month of massage and we’d like to culminate it in an event connecting people and energy around the world.

 

On Sun 27th May we’re going to hold a Massage Event with a purpose. We’re going to create an intention and dedicate the massage to the purpose.

 

 We invite people around the world to join us in creating an affirmation, a statement that’s a conscious expression of love, healing, peace, pleasure and possibility.

Then we invite you to infuse the massage and the people involved with the energy of the affirmation, and at whatever time on the 27th, dedicate a massage to this.

 

Whether you do Tantric Massage, Sensual Massage, Taoist Massage, Sexual Massage, Kahuna, Deep-Tissue, Aromatherapy…

Whether you do this in a group, which is what we intend, to magnify and enhance the experience, or alone with a partner…

 

We’re going to set up a Tumblr blog that everybody will have access to, to post details of the events, pictures and clips of the events, the experiences that people have…

 

There is such power in touch, such power in intention, such power in connection, such power in love.

We can harness this power, see what impact we can have.

 

We’re starting to create this, we’d love for you, wherever you are in the world, to join with us.

 

The first step is to create an affirmation, please send us your suggestions and input.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

We are expanding and looking for new workspace. If you know anything in the Northern Suburbs of Jo’burg that may be appropriate, please let us know.

 

 

Workshops & Events

 

Johannesburg

 

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

We will be in Vereeniging on Sat morning (24th March) for a talk and massage demo. This is a women’s function, spaces are available

 

 

Water Flow Massage Experience

Mon 2 April, 7pm, R350/person

 

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

DURBAN 26 March – 1 April 

 

 

Bloemfontein Workshop & Session Dates 16 – 22 April??For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit ?www.tantraevolution.com

 

100 Massage Giveaway

As part of a research project, massage.co.za is giving away 100 massages.

Visit http://massage.co.za/research for more information

 

 

Eye Gazing, Soul Gazing

March 11, 2012 in Uncategorized

Eye Gazing

 

Eye Gazing, Soul Gazing is a simple experience. And like many simple things, it has great power. Great Power.

 

For if you look long enough into the eyes of your lover, you will see all they are. You will see their life, every moment they have lived. You will see their pain, all of it. You will see the darkness they have walked. You will see their despair and anger.

And you will see their dreams. You will see the promise of each new day they live, the hope that floods into their eyes as the sun rises.

You will see the storm that surrounds them, that rages within them. You will see the passion, oft hidden, that dwells somewhere within, sometimes released and shared.

You will see veils that part, layers that fall away, walls that crumble.

You will see lies, and when those have been seen, you will see truth.

 

And they will see you in the same way.

 

To see all this, to show all that you are, you need be open.

For the seeing and the revealing are with your heart.

As you spread your life before me, as I give you mine to look upon, we must drop the masks, we must release judgement.

We first become small, we have shame, think we have much to hide.

And as we reveal, as we are seen, as we see, we see that our strength is in that moment of vulnerability.

For when we have laid ourselves bare and you still look with love, more than before, we are indeed strong.

 

This is a sacred ritual, for to give, to receive, to share such truth requires us to raise ourselves beyond thought, beyond words, to a place of knowing. We are joined, even for a short time, to something more, something that has no explanation, something that simply is.

 In this place we open to a stream of life that holds the truth of you. A truth that has become clothed in the drama, the artifice, the struggle of life.

This is a place of transcendance, a place of death and rebirth, a place of release and healing.

 

And when we return, for it as if we have travelled beyond time.

And when we return to seeing this world, for our vision is different in that place.

And when we return, we hold some of that, sometimes more, sometimes less.

It touches us, it changes us.

And we are able to live with greater truth.

 

We have developed an incredibly deep and powerful healing process with this, combining elements from different sources. We are using this in our work and beginning to teach it.

 

Over the past weeks we have deepened the connection, intimacy and pleasure in the Sensual Massage Workshop. We will be sharing these exciting new understandings and techniques on the workshop in Sun 18th.

We will also for the first time teach the incredibly powerful Breast Massage.

Not only this is highly erotic and sensual, it allows a woman to experience being nurtured and loved in a deep and nourishing way.a

Please email or call us with any questions you have.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

Workshops & Events

 

Johannesburg

 

We have two very exciting events coming up.

 

A Tantric Sensual Massage Workshop which will take you on an amazing journey into your body, into your sensual energy, into the possibilities that this experience offers.

There are healing elements, deep intimacy and connection, heightened pleasure, a way to explore touch that may be limitless and all that the use of Sacred Sensual Energy allows.

 

The workshop includes:

Creating a Sensual Space and why that’s important

Communication

The Heart Touch, which changes the way we touch

Connection

Energy Massage

Bliss Body Massage

Full-Body Sensual Massage including Creative Massage

Building the Sexual Fire

Yoni and Lingam Massage, the Sacred Sexual Fire Massage

 

The workshop is on Sun 18 March, from 12 – +- 5 pm, R2500/couple.

There is a possibility of finding partners for single people.

 

The next Water Flow Massage is on Mon 2nd April, 7 pm.

 

Bookings are open for both these experiences.

 

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

 

Water Flow Massage Experience

Mon 2 April, 7pm, R350/person

 

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

DURBAN 26 March – 1 April 

 

 

Bloemfontein Workshop & Session Dates 16 – 22 April??For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit ?www.tantraevolution.com

 

 

 

 

Purpose

March 4, 2012 in Uncategorized

A Purpose

 

There are many paths of healing

There are many paths of growth

There are many paths of pleasure

 

There are many purposes to pleasure.

 

In a session with a client last week we discovered something we’d like to share.

 

In a discussion on a Tantric Facebook group a while ago, a question was put as to why we, practitioners, do what we do.

My response was that the learning is often greater than the teaching, this was one of those moments.

 

This came out of something that we’ve heard and read about often and in many contexts.

 

When we have a pleasure experience that is so big we have nowhere to put it, or any way to hold onto.

 

Often people have these experiences, as happened with the Water Flow Massage, there are a few days of elation, then often a panic, lowness, confusion, even depression.

 

There are a few threads here that I’ll try to express simply.

 

Everything in our world has a frequency. Every colour, every sound, every emotion, every organ in our body, everything.

 

Every pattern of behaviour has a certain frequency, a range of energy.

 

We work on patterns, that’s how we survive.

Most of our emotional responses are based in pain, in limitation.

There is much more pain than pleasure in our lives.

Pain includes things like frustration, lack of fulfillment, anger, anxiety, stress etc. They’re all degrees of pain.

 

We live in a world where the pleasure experiences are far outweighed by the contractive.

We are surrounded by sayings like ‘You can’t have too much of a good thing’, ‘It can’t last forever’ etc.

 

We go back into our pain patterns because we know them much better, simply because there’s more of them, they’re much stronger.

We go back into them because we head for the familiar, no matter how uncomfortable they are, because we’ll go where we know. That’s how we survive. And as uncomfortable or painful as they are, they are what we have, so we take them.

 

Often on a healing path, we release some or many of these patterns, the stuff from the past that keeps us doing the things we do.

 

The problem becomes that we don’t have anything to replace them with, and that we generally are not brave enough to step into place of uncertainty that may allow us to grow or develop a pleasure pattern, a pleasure frequency.

 

Energy attracts itself.

Pain contracts, pleasure expands.

Expansion opens possibilities that we may never have seen, thought of, considered, even knew existed.

 

Pain has a limited range of vision, of motion. We simply can’t see any more than what it is, literally and metaphorically. It can do nothing but draw tighter, smaller, become more contractive and constrictive, sometimes imperceptibly slowly, but it happens.

 

Pleasure is creative, generative.

It expands into ways of being that allows us to make choices.

 

Just releasing the pain pattern is not necessarily enough.

We have to have more to change our lives.

 

We need the energy, the frequency of pleasure.

And when we look at the balance of these forces, we need to make a conscious choice to increase the pleasure experiences we have.

It’s not just about pleasure for the sake of it.

That’s ok, but there’s so much more.

 

It changes the frequency within us.

Which changes the energy, which changes us, and the possibilities we live with.

 

It changes the way we choose things, the place we come from, the motivation for our lives.

 

Just releasing is not always enough.

This is often why we change, and after a while we go back to the way we were.

 

We need a strong foundation to put the change on. If this isn’t different, if this isn’t based on something other than what we’ve done before, on a new perspective, there can be no real and lasting change.

 

Pleasure allows us to make conscious choices, to be aware of what we’re choosing, and why. These choices become the highest for everybody involved, for us, freedom to fly.

 

We are continuously honoured to share with you on the journey’s of healing, growth and discovery that we offer.

To answer a very FAQ, the way we work is we meet and talk about what you’d like to do, then make a recommendation on a programme, talk about what it involves, cost etc.

 

These journey’s are personalised, not plugging you into a programme. We often create experiences based an our continuous learning and expanding, hence Tantra Evolution.

 

Please email or call us with any questions you have.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

Workshops & Events

 

Johannesburg

 

We have two very exciting events coming up.

 

A Tantric Sensual Massage Workshop which will take you on an amazing journey into your body, into your sensual energy, into the possibilities that this experience offers.

There are healing elements, deep intimacy and connection, heightened pleasure, a way to explore touch that may be limitless and all that the use of Sacred Sensual Energy allows.

 

The workshop includes:

Creating a Sensual Space and why that’s important

Communication

The Heart Touch, which changes the way we touch

Connection

Energy Massage

Bliss Body Massage

Full-Body Sensual Massage including Creative Massage

Building the Sexual Fire

Yoni and Lingam Massage, the Sacred Sexual Fire Massage

 

The workshop is on Sun 18 March, from 12 – +- 5 pm, R2500/couple.

There is a possibility of finding partners for single people.

 

The next Water Flow Massage is on Mon 2nd April, 7 pm.

 

Bookings are open for both these experiences.

 

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

 

Water Flow Massage Experience

Mon 2 April, 7pm, R350/person

 

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

DURBAN 26 March – 1 April 

 

 

Bloemfontein Workshop & Session Dates

16 – 22 April

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit www.tantraevolution.com

 

 

 

 

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