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Benefits of a Sexual Journey

June 28, 2012 in Uncategorized

The workshops we share offer so many benefits that it’s just not possible to list them all. And everybody gets different things.

We have identified some of the most common and popular from what people have shared with us.

 

You’ll get a framework to explore your sensuality and sexuality in a practical way, and a place to put these ideas and experiences into your life.

 

An increase in your sexual knowledge.

 

An increase in your sexual confidence.

 

An opportunity to dissolve the myths, misunderstandings and misinformation we’ve grown up with and live with.

 

Deepening intimacy and connection with your partner.

 

Learning tools for better relationships.

 

Greater understanding of yourself.

 

The opportunity to release inhibitions, limitations and past patterns.

 

A space to explore the power of your sexual energy and its uses.

 

 

We are SO excited to be coming to share with you in Cape Town from the 16th July, particularly our new workshops, experiences and insights. The full programme is listed under workshops.

 

As well as the workshops and experiences we are available for private sessions for singles and couples. Please book early for these.

 

The massages we are offering include Heaven’s Portal for Women, Sacred Sexual Massage, Tantric Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Tantra Evolution Healing and Release.

 

As much as there is a progression on the journey, and we’d like to offer a great discount for those who’d like to do this, all the workshops stand alone.

 

The workshop space is informal and relaxed, we sit on cushions on the floor. There’s lot’s of time for questions and discussions.

 

The Benefits of A Sexual Journey.

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

 

Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked…)

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Tantric Sensual Massage.

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sacred Sexual Massage.

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Water Flow Massage

 

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

Places are limited, early booking is advised. This is for singles and couples

 

Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

For Women Only.

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking orgasm short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, some practical exercises for increasing your sexual pleasure potential & whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For the Cape Town Programme:

The evening workshops are R350 each.

Sensual Massage is R2000/couple, R2500 including Sacred Sexual Massage.

Sacred Sexual Massage is R400/person.

You can repeat any workshop at half the price.

Special Offers: 15% discount for more than 1 evening workshop.

Amazing Special Offer for couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600. This is only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following sites)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

Johannesburg

Thurs 5 July: Mini Sensual Massage

A practical experience of the basics of Sensual Massage and Erotic Touch.

7:30 pm, R400/person.

 

Tues 10 July: For Women Only

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking orgasm short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, some practical exercises for increasing your sexual pleasure potential & whatever else you’d like to talk about….

7 pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 12 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

7 pm, R350/person.

 

Cape Town Workshop Programme

 

We are SO excited to be coming to share with you in Cape Town, particularly our new workshops, experiences and insights.

 

The evening workshops are R350 each.

Sensual Massage is R2000/couple, R2500 including Sacred Sexual Massage.

Sacred Sexual Massage is R400/person.

You can repeat any workshop at half the price.

Special Offers: 15% discount for more than 1 evening workshop.

Amazing Special Offer for couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600. This is only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

 

As well as the workshops and experiences we are available for private sessions for singles and couples. Please book early for these.

 

The massages we are offering include Heaven’s Portal for Women, Sacred Sexual Massage, Tantric Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Tantra Evolution Healing and Release.

 

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

 

This workshop is for singles and couples.

R350 per person

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

R350 per person

 

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

R350 per person

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

This practical workshop is for couples, R2000 per couple

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

R800 per couple

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

For singles and couples R350 per person

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

For singles and couples R350 per person

 

Wed 25 July: For Women Only.

R350 per person

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

R350 per person

 

 

Our Sharing

June 18, 2012 in Uncategorized

We are, none of us in this life, innocent.

We’ve made mistakes.

We’ve hurt people, consciously and accidentally.

We’ve been hurt.

Some of the past we can make right, some of it we can’t.

Some of it may take time.

We can forgive, we can ask for forgiveness.

We may grant it, it may be extended to us.

And it may not.

 

What we can do is release ourselves to make the life we live, the present we live, different.

We can choose to be more conscious.

We can choose to be more loving.

We can choose to be more kind.

We can choose to be more true to who we are, who we really are.

We can remove the masks.

We can drop the personas.

We can choose to be happy, truly happy, whatever that means, and to live a life that expresses it.

 

This is where we find connection, with ourselves, all the aspects of our beautiful selves.

And with others.

Moments shared, days, lifetimes…

Every day is filled with such possibilities.

In connection we allow ourselves to express all the aspects of ourselves.

And open the space for others to do the same.

 

We allow ourselves to weave a web, one of the meanings of the word Tantra, we allow ourselves to a web of awareness, of love.

And we allow ourselves to be woven in the webs of those around us.

We choose our threads and patterns with care.

We web-weavers of consciousness.

 

Our purpose is to share our web with those who choose to share with us.

We have chosen strands of pleasure, shimmering threads as an expression of love.

For the vibration of pleasure, conscious pleasure expressed as love, is the highest vibration.

These threads are the key to moments of ecstasy, bliss, Divine Union.

We have chosen the web of pleasure to heal, to release, to see new ways of being.

For the more of this energy we can create, the more there is in the world.

This is light, Sacred Light.

It dispells darkness, despair, pain.

It brings light.

 

With this we create lives for ourselves that are an expression of love.

We create hope for our children.

Moment by moment, day by day, we can do it differently to what we’ve done before.

 

The energy of pleasure heals.

It gives a place to grow, to expand.

It helps us weave webs that lift us up rather than weigh us down.

Webs that are about opening space, rather than closing it.

Webs that are about connection rather than exclusion.

Webs that plant seeds to grow into wondrous creations that surprise us with the joy we are able to feel.

 

It helps us see with eyes open.

Eyes that see with more than we knew was there, just beyond the edges of our vision.

 

We’d like to share with you some words of the webs those who share with us are weaving…

 

Hi Jonti & Annie

Words cannot describe this unbelievable experience in finding my true self I have embarked on with you.

You are 2 incredible people who have provided and created the safest, trusting and most gentle space

which has allowed me to embark on the most beautiful defining journey of my life. This has been the most

intimate, most real, self discovery journey I have ever been on, this has been possible because of you,

your professionalism, love, gentleness, respect and understanding for this very personal journey has

allowed me to connect with myself in the truest most beautiful way. I am so blessed to have you in my life

and I cannot thank you enough for creating the safest most beautiful space for me. I can’t think of anyone

else I would want to guide me through the most self empowering journey of my life. This is an experience

that is so unbelievably special that I just want to share it with so many people. It is a transformation that I

know so many others would see such enormous benefits to their lives if they just knew. I now realise the

possibilities for me going fonrvard are endless and I am so excited to have the opportunity to live my life

more fully and be more present in it. The gifts and tools you have given me so far are invaluable and I will

be eternally grateful for all that you are and for all that you do. The most amazing gift is everything you

are allowing me to experience and ell the tools you offer is teaching me so much about myself and is

effortlessly spilling over to special people in my life.

 

An incredible gift and journey

 

Thank you”

 

I find myself on a very beneficial healing journey with Jonti and Annie, that has helped me manage a difficult time in my life, both from a personal and career perspective. The journey has been surprising, as I started the journey as a sceptic, but have found each session – no matter how simple or varied – to have the most surprising and unexpected impact on me. I have learned a huge amount about myself, and am embracing the ability to choose happiness. The most exciting (and surprising!) aspect of the journey however, is that the more I discover with the guidance of Jonti and Annie, the more I realise that I have to discover….”

 

From a couple that we are working with..

She says..

“I am reclaiming my sexuality and my sense of self,learning new ways to communicate with and be close to my husband as well as exploring the sexual boundaries within our relationship, leading us to exciting and different places.

 

Thank you Jonti and Anne-Marie for your gentle understanding, your willingness to share and the safe and sensual space you create for all this to happen.”

He says..

“You have touched my soul ….

 

A beautiful strange and curious experience!

 

Thank you for giving and sharing your incredible energy and accepting mine so openly ….. an impossible gift!

 

Knocking on doors that have been locked for a very long time …. which with time will reopen.

 

This is an experience beyond reality …. and your courage and gentleness is overwhelming .

 

Exceptional unbelievable stuff!”

 

And feedback on sexual healing..

“I would probably class myself as a fairly in-tune sexual person, yet, this new found environment, proved me wrong.

 

 The experience, at first, felt like a soft, sensual massage which lead into arousal and then into these incredible body quivering sensations inside my yoni.

 

The most surprising moment for me, was when I had sex that night with my partner, it honestly was the most intense internal orgasm I have ever felt. His Lingam, managed to reach a point in my yoni that Jonti had “Awakened” that morning. Created this unbelievable rush of ecstasy.

 

 The sex is unbelievable right now and I cannot understand how this was missed for so many years. It’s not heightened, it’s a completely new sensation for me.”

 

And Feedback from the Sacred Sexual Massage workshop

“Thank you for the beautiful, sumptuous, sacred and safe space that you created for your workshop.  It was an incredible evening of learning and sharing.

 

We were surprised that we were able to feel comfortable with such a new experience.

 

The yoni massage was an exquisitely beautiful and very intimate experience to watch and learn from.  Gentleness and such connection and response has to be seen to be understood.  No mere words have the power to convey such.   Gentleness and a slow pace is such and important aspect for women that men have difficulty grasping. It made a wonderful and powerful impact on my husband.

 

The quiet lingam massage was also just as beautiful and I thoroughly enjoyed giving it as I wanted without any expectations.

 

 

Although we have been following your blogs and Facebook for years this all has come about as perfect timing in our lives.  I am at a place of feeling unsettled by menopause and the change in my body as well as the unpredictable energy flow and this is just what I needed to help launch me to a path of healing, wholeness, acceptance and new strength.

 

Since the workshop I have found myself in a ‘new place’, not really a ‘high’ as such but a sense of openness, excitement, a feeling of being washed clean, expectation, a greater appreciation and enjoyment of all things, more settled in myself and it has widened my capacity to receive.

 

This gift of giving, this expression of love in such an open, deep, honest and raw form is like the glue that holds everything together.  The strength from which we can draw from to go on and love in return, conquer and create, nurture and grow.

 

Deep gratitude is just flowing here at the moment …  Thank you both for who you are are and what you do …”

 

 Jonti had flu last week, we had to postpone the Self-Pleasuring workshop, which we are now doing on Thurs.

This is a unique and exciting experience, the first time an event of this nature is being held in South Africa.

In safety, in front of a warm fire, with low lights, gentle music, you’ll experience the magic and beauty of your own sensuality and sexuality as you’re guided through an active self-pleasuring experience.

This is for singles and couples, the only person touching you is you.

We wish you so much pleasure… 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

 www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

 (note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

 

Conscious Self-Pleasuring as you’ve never experienced it before.

Thurs 21 June, 7:30 pm, R400/person.

A practical evening that begins with a short talk, then we move into connecting with your sensual energy, slowly building the sexual energy in your body through a range of Tantric and Taoist exercises and breathing which includes Self-Pleasuring, feeling the energy moving through your entire body, taking you to place of orgasmic bliss.

The workshop will include how to find your G-Spot, Female Ejaculation techniques and how men can experience orgasm without ejaculating as well as being multi-orgasmic.

This is for singles and couples, and by the definition of Self-Pleasuring, the only person touching you is you.

 

Cape Town

From 16 July we will be offering a full programme of workshops and experiences, which will include the Sacred Sexual Massage, Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni as an experience, Heaven’s Portal and hopefully Water Flow Massage as well.

 

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit 

www.tantraevolution.com

 

Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni

June 11, 2012 in Uncategorized

Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni

A deep focus of our work is healing.

Healing means many different things, and it’s not only about ‘fixing a problem’.

In fact, this is probably the most limited definition of healing.

 

We see healing as being about consciousness, about being able to expand the choices we make, about living fuller, happier lives.

To do this we have to be able to recognise the patterns we live with. The things we do, the impact the choices we’ve made have on us and others.

The growing awareness of our selves and our lives creates an increase in consciousness.

We become more present.

And in this presence we’re able to see with greater clarity.

We’re able to connect the different parts of ourselves and our lives, creating a greater sense of holism, of union.

And in this space the gifts of our lives become apparent.

We become able, more and more, to make different choices. Choices that serve us more in that they allow us greater expression of the truer parts of ourselves that are being revealed.

For this is the healing process we’ve created.

We say it often.

Healing is revealing.

Releasing.

Ourselves, others.

We help peel away the layers, the armour, the walls, the barriers.

That which we’ve put up around our hearts, in our bodies.

As we remove them, we emerge.

New life, new possibilities.

Choices, conscious choices.

 

In a space of deep relaxation, of softness, we can release, we can make space for something new, we can expand our lives.

 

Quiet Lingam and Welcoming Yoni are experiences that allow this release to take place.

As ripples of gentle pleasure move through your body, the tension we hold melts. In this softening space we can make space for an expansion of who we are, of what we do, for how we do.

 

Welcoming Yoni gently releases tension held both externally and internally.

As these tender tissues soften, there is an increase in sensation, allowing for deeper pleasure, a greater range of sensation, an increase in orgasmic possibility, an intensifying of orgasm and a much greater probability of internal orgasms.

 

Quiet Lingam is  designed to gently expand the sexual energy and patterning of male sexuality.

Men are quicker to ignite sexually, which means often they do not get to experience a slow and sensual experience of their sexual energy.

Touching a man gently, patiently, slowly, with no expectation of sex or even erection frees him to just enjoy different sensations of pleasure and intimacy, it can be very arousing, and it also can be very pleasurably relaxing as there is no need for him to do anything but FEEL.

Erection expectation and performance anxiety are things that most men will not speak of. The stress and mental anguish of the body and especially the Lingam not working as “expected” can cycle the sexual patterning into always having to perform for his partner, having to “provide” an erection.

 Quiet Lingam Massage can help with this anxiety, relaxing your partner into an experience of just receiving, and receiving genitally with conscious touch that may not even feel very sexual, yet it releases expectation and allows for his body to have a new experience.

For a man to have 

new lingam experiences, especially those involving a heart connection, can make a major impact on reconnecting with himself.

 

Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni offers a path to experiencing sexual energy as a meditative experience.

For couples, experiencing this alongside each other creates a bubble of intimacy and connection.

 

As we are constantly exploring and expanding our journey of sexual and sensual possibilities, of Tantra Evolution, as we are constantly seeing the connections between sexuality and spirituality, as we are constantly deepening and expanding the world of pleasure and it’s manifestations, we are honoured to share the unique experience of Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni with you. This is an exciting week in the world of Tantra Evolution.

We’re ready to share Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni and to offer it as a lesson.

Tues night’s Expanded Orgasmic Wave workshop offers ideas and techniques that are so important on the sexual journey, whether you’re in a relationship or not. This workshop gives you a different perspective on pleasure and the tools to enjoy this on your own and share with a partner.

 

On Thurs we are offering a unique workshop/experience, the first time this is being done in South Africa.

Self Pleasuring is an art, a journey of expanding not only your sexuality and sensuality, but your connection with yourself, opening energy for sexual meditation, manifestation and healing.

In front of a warm fire, low lighting, safe space you will be guided on a journey into the beauty of your self.

 

At last we have new dates for Cape Town, from 16 July we will be offering a full programme of workshops and experiences, which will include the Sacred Sexual Massage, Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni as an experience, Heaven’s Portal and hopefully Water Flow Massage as well.

 

We are often asked about Tantric Massage and Sensual Massage, what it is, how to have a beautiful and safe experience, especially for women, a space where all that is required is relaxation, conscious touch and pleasure. We have put together a blog that covers all of these questions, and has actual testimonials from clients. One of the questions that many women are afraid to ask is “Will the therapist be naked?” and “If it’s Tantra, will someone try and have sex with me?” our answer is absolutely not. Our first and foremost intention is that the boundaries of a massage experience are clear, this means that as a woman you can completely relax, there is no expectation of reciprocation, which means that you can completely let go, be vulnerable, and have the highest relaxation and pleasure awakenings that her body can receive.

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

 www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

 (note ADULT content on following site)

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.comWorkshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Expanded Orgasmic Wave

Tues 12 June, 7 pm, R350/person

  

The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

Conscious Self-Pleasuring as you’ve never experienced it before.

Thurs 14 June, 7:30 pm, R400/person.

A practical evening that begins with a short talk, then we move into connecting with your sensual energy, slowly building the sexual energy in your body through a range of Tantric and Taoist exercises and breathing which includes Self-Pleasuring, feeling the energy moving through your entire body, taking you to place of orgasmic bliss.

The workshop will include how to find your G-Spot, Female Ejaculation techniques and how men can experience orgasm without ejaculating as well as being multi-orgasmic.

This is for singles and couples, and by the definition of Self-Pleasuring, the only person touching you is you.

 

Water Flow Massage

Mon 18 June, 7:30pm, R350/person.

It may be cold outside, but the water’s warm, warm enough to melt you into a space of deep relaxation and sensuality.

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 

So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful

 

Cape Town

From 16 July we will be offering a full programme of workshops and experiences, which will include the Sacred Sexual Massage, Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni as an experience, Heaven’s Portal and hopefully Water Flow Massage as well.

 

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit 

www.tantraevolution.com

 

Insights on a Sexual Journey

June 4, 2012 in Uncategorized

The Sacred Sexual Massage workshop has become an experience of incredible intimacy, connection and pleasure.

There are a few places still available.

 

The past months have been an exponential time of learning and discovery for us, the past weeks even more so.

This has allowed us to deepen the healing and growth journeys and go to the most amazing places within.

The photo on the newsletter this week is from one of our sacred sexual massage workshops, we had the most loving

and beautiful feedback from so many that attended this workshop

 

Anne-Marie writes:

In 2010 I had a spiritual and sexual awakening that led me into the field of Tantra and Tantric Healing. I was asked to write an article for the on line magazine www.ctrlaltsex.co.za about some of my realizations, and I’d like to share them with our newsletter too.

Learning the true cost of faking

I’d spent years buying into the idea that if my partner was sexually satisfied, and believed I was too, he would both love and stay with me. I faked an awful lot of orgasms under this very misguided notion! When I woke up and started having experiences involving real orgasms, I had a huge realization: If you fake, you short-circuit your own pleasure process. Your body can never relax enough to become fully orgasmic. Making the decision to change the intention of sexual interaction to pleasure instead of achieving or pretending orgasm, revolutionized my sexual experiences.

Finally, all of my sexual interaction was about the fullness of pleasure, with or without orgasm.

- Being willing to face the possibility of anger

Often, the decision to back down and keep the peace seemed preferable to discussing honestly what I would like sexually, especially when expressing any sexual change brought up challenging emotions for my partner. Until I realized I cannot take responsibility for someone else’s emotional reactions. When I learned to consciously express myself, with honesty and love, when I stopped trying to anticipate what I believed the reaction would be, before I had even spoken my truth, everything changed.

Yes, I’ve faced a lot of pain and anger. It’s been worth it, because now I’ve also expanded my communication into a really positive and honest intimacy.

- Having boundaries 

As I ventured into the Tantric field, I kept berating myself about feeling uncomfortable with certain sexual experiences.

I had this belief that to be truly “Tantric”, I needed to do everything, and be everything sexually.

Until I realized that being that way does not work for me.

What gives me safety and the ability to “sexplore” in a really positive way, is knowing exactly what an experience involves. Even if I choose to be naked in a room full of other people having sex, it does not mean I have to interact sexually with others. It’s still my choice.

Being clear about what can and can’t happen in your body space is hugely empowering, and gives you the safety to experience something new.

Instead of a destructive free-for-all, it becomes a free-to-choose.

- Reclaiming my body

For years I believed that if my body was only beautiful if others deemed it so. Continually relying on the affirmations of a partner, or friends, was exhausting for everyone.

Because it was never enough.

Until I started to believe it, it didn’t matter how many times it was repeated.

So, I started learning about my bodies’ capability for pleasure, the techniques to be able to do that on my own.

And I was amazed at the response! When I took the time to actually focus and concentrate, spending the time learning about my body, so much shifted. I greeted my vagina. I made friends. I stopped focusing on what I didn’t like, or what didn’t meet an idea of how I thought I should look, and began to truly express physical love and affection to myself. I researched vaginas, and saw the varieties are endless. I finally saw my vagina as unique, and as mine, not just there to be given to others. Reclaiming my body, experiencing more pleasure in the way my body could feel, changed my mind about what my body “needed” to look like. After all, no matter what I looked like, my body gave me pleasure!

- Accepting my sexual imagination

In 2011 I read one of Nancy Fridays’ compilation books on women’s fantasies. Some fascinated me, some repelled me, some owned me.

My biggest realization was how many of the themes and fantasies were shared by women worldwide. This allowed me to feel connected to other women, and to release the shame, embarrassment and guilt associated with having, and expressing my fantasies.

- Releasing sexual judgement

As open minded as I wished to believe I was, I knew I was still operating with beliefs about what was “right” or “wrong” sexually. The moment I made a decision to begin observing and researching sexual practices that did not appeal to me, the more I began to understand societies’ layering of fear and guilt on any sexual practises that it deemed fetish or unusual.

I took a deep breath, and went to an extreme bondage evening. I even chose to have a gentle bondage experience of my own that blew my mind. The way the body reacts to pleasure and pain is very similar, it’s the mind that differentiates. I had absolutely no understanding that light pain sensation followed by pleasure sensation, heightens ALL sensation. I went with a judgement and erroneous perception of what bondage was, and walked away with a better understanding of how the body works, and how deeply respectful the folk in the bondage world are with one another.

- Asking for what I wanted

I never felt brave enough to ask for what I wanted to experience. So, I gave in order to receive. Sexual pleasure was not a gift, but an exchange.

I spent a lot of time being very frustrated.

Because men cannot mind read. Even those that have psychic ability cannot know that behind the “No, it’s really OK that you’ve had an orgasm and you want to go to sleep” is a woman who wants you to spend an hour licking her!

You have to ask. You have to set an intention.

I learned that the world does not implode when someone says no. It stings in the beginning, and I learned that it’s not really about you if they choose to refuse. It’s about where they are, and how they feel.

And since I started asking, more often than not, I’ve gotten more of what I would like.

The odds are so much better than just hoping it’ll happen…

- Taking the time to integrate

Even pleasurable, fantastic sexual change or experimentation can create emotional upheaval. For me, understanding that huge sexual life changes need time to integrate, was very confusing. I couldn’t understand why experiences that were so pleasurable, chosen and conscious, kept opening and releasing feelings that were so hard to deal with.

Until I stopped dealing with them, and just FELT them.

It took time. Emotional shifting and growth does. Exploring your sexuality often challenges your core beliefs. I learned to set an intention of just feeling the emotion, letting it take the time that it took, not to judge it as good or bad.

- Not rushing through my sexual possibilities

Often, making the decision to have a sexually positive experience that’s new or different, is just the first step. I kept trying to do everything in the very first experience. It led to an awful lot of frustration, because some things cannot be done in 3 hours!!! Setting the intention to go slowly really helped me get the most from each experience. If you rush, it’s a little bit like trying to eat every food type in one meal, you miss out on the nuance.

-The gift of pleasure

As I learned that I didn’t have to have sexual intercourse to have a positive and pleasurable sexual experience, I began to be able to fully receive sexual pleasure as a gift. I’d never had the singular experience of just giving, or just receiving, and often during a sexual experience I’d felt it necessary to immediately reciprocate. When the intention is pleasure, and it’s given without “sexpectation,” it’s life changing. That’s what bringing the principles of Tantra with joy and beauty and pleasure to all of my sexual experiences has done. Changed my life.

Becoming sex-positive does that.

We wish you so much pleasure…

 

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

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Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Sacred Sexual Massage

Thurs 7th June R800 per couple

An experience of connection, power and pleasure, oh such pleasure.

 

In a beautiful space you will watch and learn Yoni and Lingam Massage, the Tantric Sexual Massage for men and women, then share the experience with your partner.

 

We are creating a sensual harem space at a beautiful fantasy venue for the evening for you to get lost in.

 

This is a practical workshop and experience in a safe space that includes Yoni/Lingam Acknowledgement, a process of deep healing and liberation for both the giver and receiver, Breathing, and The Massage.

 

The Yoni Massage is centred around a slow build-up of the sexual fire to an extremely high state of arousal, including deep G-Spot Stimulation and the latest research on clitoral stimulation taking you to an extended state of arousal.

 

The massage for men will show you how to touch your partner in a way few men ever experience, the pleasure it gives literally leaves him speechless.

 

Expanded Orgasmic Wave

Tues 12 June, 7 pm, R350/person

  

The Expanded Orgasmic Wave gives you a new way of looking at pleasure and the practical technique to express it. We generally see orgasm as an event, a goal, something that happens then it’s over. This teaches you how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, and offers men a range of experiences including how to have orgasms without ejaculating, allowing men to have multiple orgasms. The technique is demonstrated on latex models in a fun and safe space with much laughter. This workshop is for singles and couples.

 

Conscious Self-Pleasuring as you’ve never experienced it before.

Thurs 14 June, 7:30 pm, R400/person.

A practical evening that begins with a short talk, then we move into connecting with your sensual energy, slowly building the sexual energy in your body through a range of Tantric and Taoist exercises and breathing which includes Self-Pleasuring, feeling the energy moving through your entire body, taking you to place of orgasmic bliss.

The workshop will include how to find your G-Spot, Female Ejaculation techniques and how men can experience orgasm without ejaculating as well as being multi-orgasmic.

This is for singles and couples, and by the definition of Self-Pleasuring, the only person touching you is you.

 

Taoist Sexual Energy Massage

Sun 17th June, 12 pm, R2500/couple.

 

Water Flow Massage

Mon 18 June, 7:30pm, R350/person.

It may be cold outside, but the water’s warm, warm enough to melt you into a space of deep relaxation and sensuality.

We have had quite a chuckle at some of the perceptions about this experience.

 

So…

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful

 

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit 

www.tantraevolution.com

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