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July 30, 2012 in Uncategorized

On Mon 30th July, Anne-Marie and I are going on 702 at 3pm, talking about Tantra and SEXPO with Jenny Crwys-Williams.

 

On Thurs 2nd Aug we are offering an exciting evening based on 50 Shades of Grey.

In Conjunction with Bella Rouge and Pharaohs Fantasy Club we have a package which includes:

The 50 Shades Trilogy for R300.

The 50 Shades Toy Hamper for R700. This includes Ben Wa balls, prostate stimulator, lubricant, sexy, submissive set (velvet restraints, blindfold and feather tickler) and a crop (all valued at R850).

The 50 Shades Unveiled Workshop for R250.

The workshop tells you how to use the toys, how to create a safe space for exploration and play, sexual communication, the power of fantasy, introducing new ideas and play into your relationship, how to plan experiences and more…

 

We’re preparing to shoot new DVD’s on Tantra, Taoist Massage, Self-Pleasuring for Women and we’re looking for models, men, women and couples. If you’re interested, or know anybody who may be interested in taking part in this exciting adventure, please contact us.

 

Tues 7th Aug: An Intro to Tantra Evolution, 7pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 9th Aug: Expanded Orgasmic Wave, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 16th Aug: Sexual Skills, aka Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex but Never Asked, aka The Art of F***ing. 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Sun 19th Aug: Tantric Sensual Massage, 12pm, R2000/ couple.

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

Soothing Massage Therapy Relaxes and Refreshes Cancer Patients by Melanie L. Bowen

July 17, 2012 in Sexual Health and Education

Taking time to rest and relax in between cancer treatments is absolutely vital in order for a cancer patient to be able to cope well.  Physical and mental coping abilities are very important to any person who is battling mesothelioma, breast cancer, colon cancer, or other forms of cancer.

The surgeries, radiation treatments, and chemotherapy treatments leave patients feeling physically ill, emotionally drained and achy throughout their bodies.  Soothing and healing massage therapy is a great way to incorporate relaxation into a weekly routine that is laden with cancer treatments and doctor appointments.

Things to Communicate to Your Massage Therapist

It is beneficial to choose a massage therapist who has extensive experience in providing soothing medical massages to people with cancer.  While a standard masseuse may be wonderful at his or her job, therapists who are professionally trained to work with cancer patients will be aware of what areas of the body to massage and which areas need to be avoided.  It is also important to take time and communicate with your massage therapist.

The therapist will need to know if you are in the middle of chemotherapy treatments.  Many times, oncologists will recommend that massages are limited to specific areas on the body if the person is in the midst of an intense set of chemo treatments.  Radiation treatments can leave the skin irritable or painful and it is vital to share with your therapist if you are receiving radiation treatments so he or she can avoid reddened areas until they have a chance to heal.

Take Precautions and Enjoy the Relaxation

While there may be some conditions and things to be aware of when a cancer patient gets professional massages, massages can be a wonderful way to get refreshed and to allow stress and worry to slip away.  If a specific part of the body is off limits for massaging, the temple, arms, and other areas may still be fine for massaging.  Speaking to your personal physician or oncologist is a great way to begin planning massage therapy treatments.  Taking these simple precautions can help you to begin massage sessions in full confidence.

One of the major things listed in many medical journals for cancer patients is the patient’s absolute need to have positive coping methods.  Cancer patients face numerous challenges.  These challenges are financial, physical, mental, and emotional.  Each of the challenges and obstacles a cancer patient faces can have a devastating impact on the individual if the person has not developed a plan to cope with stress and obstacles.  Massages are a great way to release anxiety and to have a method of relaxing and getting refreshed each week.

The University of Virginia Health System has a helpful website that explains in detail the multiple benefits soothing and healing massage therapy can have on people who have been diagnosed with cancer.  Reading the website can help a cancer patient to understand the different types of massages available.

 

The Importance of Tantric Massage for Women

July 13, 2012 in Sexual Health and Education

Some thoughts on the importance of Tantric Massage for women.

 

Tantric Massage can have an enormous impact. We’d like to share some of what we’ve learned over the years of sharing this experience.

 

First, let’s look at who has these experiences. Women who are single, women who are in relationship, women whose partner’s know they’re having the experience and women whose partner’s don’t, women who are comfortable with their bodies, women who have body issues, women who are sexually adventurous, women who are conservative, women who have orgasms, women who don’t, women who are curious, women who are lonely, women who are fulfilled and women who are not, women over 60…

 

This is always an important experience.

Of learning, of healing, of growth, of relaxation, of release, of pleasure, of spirituality, of connection, of love, of receiving…

 

Of receiving.

This is such an important aspect of the massage.

Of receiving.

With no conditions.

With no expectations.

 

You see, there is deep conditioning in many women that if someone does something sexual, gives pleasure, it has to be reciprocated.

And very often, pleasure is given with the expectation that something will be given in return.

 

This is a space for women simply to receive.

 

What this does is it creates safety.

The boundaries of the experience are clear.

And as soon as she knows this, knows that the experience is totally about her, she can let go into the feelings, the sensations, the pleasure…

This is such a simple concept, but as we say so often, the simplest has the greatest power.

We can’t emphasize this enough. You often actually see the body relax when this is explained, a release of tension and the excitement that goes with it.

This is just for me!

 

The second aspect of safety in a Tantric Massage space is about getting out of the goal, not having to perform.

One of the conditions of sex, more often out of ego than anything else, is the pressure to have an orgasm.

As soon as this is in the mix, whether it’s implied or stated, there’s pressure.

As soon as the pressure is there her body, her being can’t respond based on how it’s feeling.

She can’t enjoy the beauty of the massage, wherever it goes.

 

An understanding of female sexuality that looks only at orgasm as the criterion for success is definitely lacking.

Deep and heightened pleasure states, orgasmic energy states that move through the entire body and being, do not always include orgasm.

When the pressure to perform is off, she can have the fullest possible experience.

Whatever that may be.

 

This takes us to the next aspect of the importance of Tantric Massage.

Being touched by somebody who knows bodies, how to touch, who understands energy, the slow build of the feminine sexual fire, the journey that begins with relaxation, gradually opening the pleasure channels, building the pleasure, the secrets of the U-Spot, The G-Spot, the A-spot…

 

For a man to be comfortable with his partner having this experience requires a mind shift, adopting a different perspective on sexuality, pleasure and relationships.

When the boundaries of the experience are clear, when the purpose of the massage is explained, when the benefit of the pleasure or healing are seen, change is possible.

 

Tantric Massage, as we understand it, is an expression of love. It’s making love. Not what we’ve taken that to mean, not an act of penetration. But if we look at the term ‘making love’, it means just that, the massage makes love, allows you to feel loved, feel beautiful, feel the Goddess you are.

 

We invite you…

 

We’re looking for somebody to build a large yoni model for an exhibition, it can be made out of latex, foam, something light. Please contact us if you know someone who does this.

 

We are getting excited about being in Cape Town next week, sharing with you. Come on Mon 16th to the Free Talk, meet us, hear about The Sexual Journey, experiences we’ve shared, what the workshops involve etc. All bookings through Jonti, jontisearll@mweb.co.za, 083 7435 129.

Please bring cushions to sit on for all the evening workshops.

 

The pool we had for the Water Flow Massage has been withdrawn, it’s sad to see the fear that fills so many lives.

Please let us know if you know of any pool that may be possible.

We’re also looking for healing space for private sessions and massage experiences, private or in a centre. Please share your suggestions with us.

 

We’ve added something to the Expanded Orgasmic Wave workshop in Cape Town on Wed 18 July.

 

The possibility of experiencing the amazing pleasure.

The workshop will be complete, if you’d like to stay afterwards and have the experience, ask questions, get advice etc, this will be available. There’s no extra charge for this.

The workshop is for singles and couples.

 

 

We asked some of beloved clients who are based in Cape Town if they would be willing to help get the word out about the workshops from the 16th, and this was a testimonial email that we’d like to share with you as it is so beautiful..

 

“Hi Friends

 

I don’t normally send mailings of things out, but I wanted to share a really special opportunity for this month.

Some of you may have heard me share about Jonti and Anne-Marie from Tantra Evolution before, some of you not.

 

Either way this is a most amazing couple who are doing wonderful and engaging workshops in the area of sexual health, healing and growth.

For many of us, we don’t talk about the area of our sexual lives with anyone, or maybe with a partner and a few close people. So we never really get insights and understanding on how to ensure this area of our lives is absolutely terrific, all of the time.

 

I met Jonti and Anne-Marie over almost 2 years ago now, taking a lot of courage to go to one of their workshops on my own.

I had no idea what to expect. And thank goodness.

 

I was made to feel completely welcome, in such a safe environment, that it was easy to lose inhibitions and concerns over what others were thinking about me, my own fears etc to have a space to share, and really look at what stops and limits me and simply engage in an area of life that I had neglected and as such had neglected myself. Even in being in a relationship at the time, I was totally stuck.

I’ve met up with them a number of times and done more work with them since then, and each time there is a connection to myself that I can’t begin to tell you is extraordinary. What I’ve learnt is how much it gets to start with me and works outwards as I look at who I get to be with. I’ve also had the opportunity to get a whole lot of past complete, because like in any area, we make decisions and then live like that’s the truth and don’t go back to bringing nothing to create from. I have an inner confidence and self-assurance in the area of my sexuality and I now find myself to be self-expressed about what I want, and understanding and compassionate when being intimate. There’s a creative space now.

I couldn’t have asked for two more wonderful people to provide that access for me.

 

So if you are vaguely interested in exploring your sexuality at a deeper more conscious level, I highly recommend you attend one or more of their workshops.

IF you are in an intimate relationship it’s great to do this together, but going along as a single person is an equally transformational experience (oh, and there is space for all sexual orientations and preferences!)”

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Cape Town Workshop Programme

 

The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey, 7pm, singles and couples

 

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

7pm R350 per person, for singles and couples

 

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked….)

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

11am – 4pm R2000 per couple

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

R800 per couple

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Wed 25 July For Women Only Workshop.

7pm, R350 per person

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking it short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit

www.tantraevolution.com

 

From the Darkness into the Light

July 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

From The Dark to The Light

 

Sex is the part of life that many, maybe even most of us fear the most.

 

We keep it in the dark, we keep it dirty.

We keep it from being open, honest, non-judgemental.

 

We keep it from being beautiful.

We keep it from being powerful.

This is what we fear most.

 

We fear the freedom it gives us.

We fear the challenge it brings.

 

We fear the knowledge that this connects us to the highest in us more than any other aspect of ourselves and our lives.

 

We fear the knowledge that this act of love is an expression of the energy of God, of the Goddess.

 

So we teach our children fear.

We don’t give them tools for pleasure, for successful experiences, fulfilling relationships.

We teach them guilt, shame, embarrassment.

We teach them myth, misinformation and misuse

We teach them prejudice and limitation.

We don’t teach them a culture of communication.

We don’t teach them what it is to be a man or woman.

We teach them suppression, repression.

 

We don’t teach them of the light, we don’t teach them of the power.

We don’t teach them of possibility.

We don’t teach them of the magic.

We don’t teach them of fun.

 

We close our eyes, we close our ears, we hang our heads, we pretend.

We allow the shame to exist.

We allow the prejudice to spread.

 

We allow the pain of not expressing ourselves, of not experiencing the fullness of pleasure, of love, of intimacy, of connection to pervade our lives and relationships.

 

We allow the warped messages of pornography and the media to colour our experiences.

It’s easier for nudity to be forbidden.

It’s easier for there to be ‘dirty’ pictures, movies, books…

It’s safer.

 

Safer for who?

Safer to keep us, ourselves, our children, our society, in the dark.

Safer for the pain this causes to be present in the world on a large scale, and safer for us in the immediacy of our lives.

 

And it’s all rooted in fear.

 

How can love exist, thrive, grow, spread, in the presence of fear?

How can Spirit be present in such fear?

How can the heart be free in such fear?

How can acceptance exist in such fear?

How can the Sacred flow into us, through us, how can it be a part of our lives, a part of our world in such fear?

 

I’ve recently been through a time of disconnection, questioning, feeling adrift…

We’ve encountered a great deal of prejudice and fear.

 

This is a re-dedication, a re-commitment, a re-connection.

From myself, from Anne-Marie.

Workshop by workshop, talk by talk, DVD by DVD, audio book by audio book, touch by touch, massage by massage, healing session by healing session, orgasm by orgasm, release by release…

 

We honour and thank all those who share with us.

We honour and thank all the healers, teachers and practitioners around the world.

 

As we move from the darkness to the light…

 

We are getting excited about being in Cape Town next week, sharing with you. Come on Mon 16th to the Free Talk, meet us, hear about The Sexual Journey, experiences we’ve shared, what the workshops involve etc. All bookings through Jonti, jontisearll@mweb.co.za, 083 7435 129.

Please bring cushions to sit on for all the evening workshops.

 

The pool we had for the Water Flow Massage has been withdrawn, it’s sad to see the fear that fills so many lives.

Please let us know if you know of any pool that may be possible.

We’re also looking for healing space for private sessions and massage experiences, private or in a centre. Please share your suggestions with us.

We’ve added something to the Expanded Orgasmic Wave workshop in Cape Town on Wed 18 July.

The possibility of experiencing the amazing pleasure.

The workshop will be complete, if you’d like to stay afterwards and have the experience, ask questions, get advice etc, this will be available. There’s no extra charge for this.

The workshop is for singles and couples.

 

 

The Massage Experiences for men, women and couples are a time of deep healing, relaxation and pleasure. They offer a safe space to explore and experience many aspects of your self, your sensuality and sexual energy.

 

DVD Special

 

For this week only, the full set of Tantra Evolution DVD’s, 6 titles to enhance your sexual pleasure for R1000, save R800 off the full price.

The set includes: Expanded Orgasm, Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures and An Intro To Tantra.

There is more info on the DVD’s on our website, www.tantraevolution.com.

 

We’re doing something special on Thurs.

A practical experience of The Amazing, Incredible Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re teaching the workshop, teaching you about the principle and technique of Expanded Orgasm. Then an opportunity for you to experience this, get tips, ask questions etc.

This is for singles and couples.

7:30 pm, R350/person.

 

Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Thurs 12 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re doing something special on Thurs.

A practical experience of The Amazing, Incredible Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re teaching the workshop, teaching you about the principle and technique of Expanded Orgasm. Then an opportunity for you to experience this, get tips, ask questions etc.

This is for singles and couples.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Cape Town Workshop Programme

 

The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 13 July.

 

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey, 7pm, singles and couples

 

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

7pm R350 per person, for singles and couples

 

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked….)

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

11am – 4pm R2000 per couple

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

R800 per couple

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Wed 25 July For Women Only Workshop.

7pm, R350 per person

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking it short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit

www.tantraevolution.com

Creating Safety Consciously

July 2, 2012 in Uncategorized

Anne-Marie writes:

As I’ve journeyed on my Tantric path, one of the things that has amazed me is how awareness and consciousness of self brings a way of being “moral” and “righteous” without the need to have others subscribe to exactly the same code as yourself.

Conscious people naturally take others needs and boundaries into consideration, without limiting themselves or their own spiritual growth. It’s a standing apart from the judgement that many moral systems impose, whilst treating firstly yourself, then others with honour and unconditional love.

This has really been a huge revelation to me, as rules, regulations and boundaries have always given me such “safety”. The reason for all the inverted commas? Realizing that all the words in inverted commas are actually not real, but concepts.

 

They feel real.

 

Which is why we subscribe to them. It’s actually only when they are given power and switched on internally for us as human beings that they work.

 

When there are rules in society that everyone is expected to follow, in a very fear based paradigm, when offenders are punished for breaking them, we have a sense of “safety” that is not necessarily real. For people do not all subscribe and follow the same rules, many break what they consider to be the stupid rules, and some murder and pillage.

 

And that outrages us, the ones who follow most of the rules.

 

I sat in my ivory tower judging those who broke the rules.

And as I began to examine myself, my rules, the ones I subscribed to in society, I realized I didn’t agree with all of them.

Now what to do? I want to live in a society that is not a free for all with anarchy, looting and bad driving, so how do I find a way?

 

I started as I think every well intentioned person does.

With a new list of rules!!!!

And then another, and another….

 

Until I got it. Although we’re not ready to be a completely rule free society yet, awareness and consciousness of yourself is the key.

 

You design safety in yourself, by looking at your desires, your fears, your love, your limitations, what SERVES you.

You design safety in yourself by releasing that which does not work for you anymore.

 

The things that gave me pleasure when I was a child are not the same things I like to do all the time anymore.

I do not wish to play dolls.

I still like to lie under my duvet with the electric blanket on and read a book.

 

What makes us think that at age 21 we suddenly just become an adult and everything falls into place? That’s actually a ridiculous concept. I was not the same at 9 as I was at 15. I am not the same at 41 as I was at 35.

I examine myself, what is working in my life, where lies my safety given to me by others.

 

And that’s the illusion. That if everyone just follows the same rules as me, we will all be happy.

 

I think it was Oscar Wilde who said, and I paraphrase

Selfishness is not living the way you would like, it’s expecting others to live the way you would like.

 

So, I began to think through my rules.

And I began to watch how I blindly obeyed them in society, and began to consciously obey instead, making a decision each time as best I could in that moment as to what served me.

 

To stop at a red traffic light is an idea that serves me.

Yet, it doesn’t serve me living in South Africa to stop at 2am, when I can see all oncoming traffic and I’m in a dangerous area.

So, what to do?

You follow the guidelines or “rules” consciously.

YOU decide what gives you safety in the situation.

Boundaries and rules become fluid.

 

You discuss with others what you would like, negotiating your own boundaries and theirs.

When they are rigid, they become either/or situations.

When they are fluid, it becomes what serves me as my highest self in this situation, without deliberately causing harm to others.

 

Conscious people would not play loud music in their townhouse complex at 2am. They wouldn’t need a rule.

 

With sexuality, it’s exactly the same.

Sexually conscious people make decisions for themselves, give themselves safety first, and then extend compassion and awareness to those around them.

Safety comes from within.

Your rules and boundaries are decided by you, for you.

Not by others, your partner, society.

 

And when you decide what serves you, consciously, there’s a natural progression that that extends to those around you.

 

We are coming to Cape Town from the 16th July, starting with a free talk on that evening. The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

 

We’ve are SO excited about having found a pool for the Water Flow Massage. It is such a beautiful experience, we are so looking forward to sharing it with you.

 

Places are limited so please book early for this.

For the full Cape Town programme, see the workshop listing on the other side of the newsletter

 

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

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Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Thurs 5 July: Mini Sensual Massage

A practical experience of the basics of Sensual Massage and Erotic Touch.

7:30 pm, R400/person.

 

Tues 10 July: For Women Only

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking orgasm short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, some practical exercises for increasing your sexual pleasure potential & whatever else you’d like to talk about….

7 pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 12 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

7 pm, R350/person.

 

 

Cape Town

The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

 

We’ve are SO excited about having found a pool for the Water Flow Massage. It is such a beautiful experience, we are so looking forward to sharing it with you.

 

Places are limited so please book early for this.

 

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey, 7pm, singles and couples

 

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

7pm R350 per person, for singles and couples

 

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked….)

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

11am – 4pm R2000 per couple

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

R800 per couple

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Wed 25 July For Women Only Workshop.

7pm R350 per person

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking it short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For FAQs and more info

www.tantraevolution.com

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