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Desire & Fear

August 26, 2012 in Uncategorized

Desire

 

Fear not your desire.

For it has keys to your purpose, to your journey, to your healing, to your growth, to your transcendence.

And to your freedom.

 

Most of us fear the desires we have.

They come to mind, make themselves known.

We feel them in our body.

We feel them deep.

And we feel them strong.

We feel their fire.

And it consumes us.

It has power, beyond reason.

 

We don’t understand this desire.

We don’t know its source.

But it draws us.

We know that, we feel it.

 

And it scares us, terrifies us.

We have very few, if any, place to express the desire.

These places are not only physical, they’re also emotional.

For to even share the words of these takes us to places of absolute vulnerability, of revealing ourselves.

We open to judgement, we open to ridicule.

 

For the desires go the darkest places within us.

 

And as we suppress them, we suppress our deepest selves.

We suppress some of the most important keys to our growth and purpose.

For what we suppress owns us, controls us.

And beyond the desires, the reasons for keeping the desires hidden, is fear.

So our pleasure becomes fearful.

Guilt, shame, embarrassment, inhibition, they are all offshoots of fear.

 

If we’re willing to go there, to go into ourselves.

Simply to acknowledge ourselves, to look into our own beings, into the mirror.

Firstly, we take the light with us.

And where the light is, there cannot be darkness.

 

Then we begin to receive the keys to an inner world with a depth of information, knowledge and truth of who we are.

Who we are in truth.

And we begin to see where our power may lie.

 

And as we journey into these mists, we free ourselves from the shame, from the guilt, the embarrassment, from the inhibitions.

From the fear.

The fear of life.

The fear of celebration.

The fear of courage.

 

And the fear of pleasure.

Not only sexual, sensual pleasure.

But the pleasure of life, of LIFE, of LOVE.

 

This doesn’t mean that all desires are expressed.

For in our inner worlds, extreme may be the norm.

However, acknowledging them, naming them, coming to know them, giving voice to them.

And giving life to some of them.

In safety, in a space that allows us to go into that world to claim ourselves, reclaim ourselves, know ourselves.

 

Fear not your desire.

Fear not your pleasure.

Fear not your freedom.

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

We have recently rebranded all of our DVD’s, and are offering the full Tantra Evolution set consisting of 6 titles Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures, Sensual Massage, Expanded Orgasm and Introduction to Tantra at R800 while stocks last.

 

SEXPO

 

SEXPO is fast approaching, 27-30 Sept at NASREC.

We are doing talks every day as well as Sensual Massage Demo’s and a Bondage Play Demo.

If you’d like to be a model for these experiences, have fun and excitement, please let us know. Your face does not have to be seen.

 

 

Johannesburg Workshops:

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself. This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more. We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, you do not have to be naked, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person

 

Expanded Orgasm On Your Own for Women

(Women Only Workshop)

A practical workshop teaching women how to be in an Expanded Orgasmic state for over an hour! Taken from the principles of our Expanded Orgasm Workshop, this is a technique designed for women to have the Expanded Orgasmic experience on their own. This technique is an incredible tool for women who struggle with orgasm, or who want higher states of pleasure. With soft candlelight and gentle music, you will be guided through the experience. Although this is a practical experience, you can bring pillows and blankets for your comfort and privacy.

Tuesday 11 September, 7pm, R350 /person

 

An Evening of Sensual Play for Couples

Join us at Pharaohs for an exciting evening of exploring sensual play with your partner. In a fantasy setting we’ll go on a journey of fun and adventure of play, laughter and delicious sensations.

Thurs 13 Sept, R700/couple.

 

FIFTY SHADES

The evening we did last month was so successful, we’re doing it again.

In conjunction with Bella Rouge and Pharaohs Fantasy Club we’re going to talk about exploring fantasies, opening the conversation with your partner, rules for play and exploring, how to have successful experiences, practical advice and more…

Toy hampers available at a special price.

Thurs 20th Sept, 7:30 pm, R300/person.

 

 

For more info and FAQ’s please visit www.tantraevolution.com

The Pleasure Space

August 20, 2012 in Uncategorized

The Pleasure Space

 

For most of us the Pleasure Space is brief, very brief. 20 or 30 seconds of orgasmic contractions, with a few minutes of afterglow. Which is such a beautiful expression, but is actually more than that. It has a key to one of the purposes of sexuality.

 

Many of us of had, at some point in our lives, an experience that has taken us beyond those few moments.

 

We’ve had an experience of The Pleasure Space.

We’ve lost ourselves.

Totally, utterly, completely.

We’ve gone beyond our bodies, out of our minds, we’ve transcended the boundaries of this reality.

We’ve left the physicality of this world and touched another.

We’ve touched a world of mystery, of magic, of spirit.

A world of being.

A world of knowing.

For a few moments we’ve seen something, we’ve felt something more.

 

And for so many of us, we have no idea how to get back there.

So we put the experience in our memories, we visit it with longing.

We’ve been there, we’ve tasted it, touched it, floated in it, it’s washed over us, through us.

It’s spark lives somewhere inside of us.

It never leaves us.

It never goes out.

 

For something mystical, something eternal, something that has elements of God, of Goddess, can never leave us once it’s touched us.

 

This is The Pleasure Space.

And our bodies are a portal to get there.

Our sexual energy is the fuel to take us there.

The connection of Genitals, Heart and Spirit unite in the trinity of possibility.

Desire, Sacred Desire, is the spark.

The sexual fire is lit, and it’s often kindled in the depths, in the darkness.

We imbue the flames with Passion.

We allow them to burn.

We allow them to take us beyond what we know.

We allow their heat to give us courage to release ourselves.

We allow them to rise.

We allow them to consume us.

We allow them burn our shell away.

We allow ourselves to touch our essence.

 

For only in this space can we enter The Pleasure Space.

To know Love.

Without judgement, without border, without definition, without limit.

For The Pleasure Space is the field of possibility.

 

And when we return, we are changed.

We are filled with afterglow.

A light within us, a fire that may dip low.

But a breath on the coals of our sexuality brings it once again to life.

 

This is there for all of us.

It’s nothing new, it’s ancient.

It’s not spiritual gobbledegook.

It’s real.

It’s where our humanity touches our divinity.

And it’s there for all of us.

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

We have recently rebranded all of our DVD’s, and are offering the full Tantra Evolution set consisting of 6 titles Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures, Sensual Massage, Expanded Orgasm and Introduction to Tantra at R800 while stocks last.

 

Sacred Sexual Massage

 

Join us on Thurs night for an erotic experience, a learning experience, an intimate experience, an experience of Sacred Sexual Massage.

The massage will teach you Deep Yoni stimulation including The G-Spot, The A-Spot, Heightened Pleasure States for men and women, Quiet Lingam and more.

This exciting evening for couples offers learning and then the experience of the massage with your partner.

7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Double Goddess Massage

 

Watch the YouTube clip, see the link below for a beautiful moment of the massage.

‪Designed as a massage to enable and empower women to be able to just receive pleasure with no reciprocation in a safe environment of sexual/kundalini energy.

This massage opens women up to pleasure in a new pattern.

Most women struggle enormously with the concept of “just receiving” especially in a pleasure state, this breaks the pattern of needing to reciprocate, often leading to deep sexual healing and altered states of pleasure and relaxation for women.

Holistically speaking, treating the body in its’ entirety is very healing, often we draw more attention to the parts we leave out than the parts we include.

In Tantric practice, the body is treated as a whole, including genitals.

Performed by both male and female practitioners at the same time, the exquisite sensations of being touched with love by four hands can be life changing.

 

http://youtu.be/dAESm-_9jFg

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

 

Johannesburg Workshops:

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person

 

 

 

Women’s Month, Women’s Pleasure – The G-Spot

August 13, 2012 in Sexual Health and Education

Women’s Month, Women’s Pleasure

 

At almost every talk and workshop there is a woman, often women, who says ‘I don’t have a G-Spot, I’ve tried to find it, followed so many directions, I’ve become convinced I don’t have one, it just frustrates me’.

 

You do.

 

Unfortunately, as with many sources of information today, particularly what’s published in so many women’s magazines, they don’t tell you anything near the whole truth.

You get some ‘physical directions’ with no context, no connection to the fullness of your being, no indication of the emotional and energy aspects that are vital aspects of your sexuality.

 

Our sexuality does not take place in a vacuum. It’s connected to all aspects of our being, our mind, our heart, our spirit, our past…

 

Our bodies are a reflection of all we are, all that has been done to us, all that we’ve allowed, all that we’ve taken on.

 

For must of us, sexuality has been a negative force from childhood. We’re filled with myth, misinformation, guilt, shame, embarrassment…

Women get more of this than men, with female pleasure being severely limited.

 

Besides all the mental and emotional ‘junk’ that women take on, have put on them, add negative experiences, physical and emotional, unfulfilled sexual experiences, unsatisfied longings etc and we have an incredibly powerful network of blockages.

 

These manifest in physical form.

In your yoni.

In your G-Spot.

Tissue that should be alive and filled with delicious sensations and pleasure, are either numb or tender, even painful when touched.

 

It doesn’t matter how much looking and exploring you do.

Until there has been healing and release of what’s trapped there, you aren’t going to find it.

Because the G-Spot, The Goddess Area, Fount of Unimaginable Pleasure, Source of Female Ejaculation and more, is directly linked to the deep sea of emotions of sexuality and pleasure.

 

The G-Spot, and as we’re learning, The A-Spot, and more, are on one hand part of the great mystery of female sexuality, and on the other hand, accessible to almost all women. Whether you have a partner or not, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

 

And the pleasure possibilities that go with this are deep, vast, varied and oh, so beautiful, exciting, delicious…

 

When your sexual pleasure has been centred around clitoral orgasms, and the world opens to G-Spot orgasms, Deep Uterine orgasms, A-Spot Pleasure, Orgasmic Waves and more, the world opens. Literally and metaphorically.

 

For beyond the physical pleasure, your G-Spot is an energy portal, a direct connection between your sexuality and spirituality. It’s the switch that opens the channels to higher states of being. It’s the conduit from Woman to Goddess.

It’s a guide to higher levels of consciousness, inner states of deep peace, sexual meditation, cosmic connection and more.

 

This is your birthright as a woman. Whether you’re journey is about physical pleasure, just looking to find this elusive spot in your yoni to enhance your sexual experience, or wherever else it may take you on the magical mystery tour, it’s yours.

 

We offer our knowledge, our experience, to help you on the path of pleasure, the path to yourself..

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

We have recently rebranded all of our DVD’s, and are offering the full Tantra Evolution set consisting of 6 titles Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures, Sensual Massage, Expanded Orgasm and Introduction to Tantra at R800 while stocks last.

 

 

WORKSPACE

 

We are looking to expand and move to new premises. If you know anything that may be available please let us know.

 

 

 

THE ART OF SEX

On Thurs 16 Aug we are offering a special and exciting evening together with Pharaoh’s Fantasy Club. Sex is an art, this workshop explores the art of sexual technique. We sit with a glass of wine in front of a fire and talk about oral sex, positions, fantasies, anal stimulation, some Tantric sex techniques, sex with other people, whatever you’d like to ask but never did.

7:30pm, R350/person.

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

 

Thurs 16th Aug: Sexual Skills, aka Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex but Never Asked, aka The Art of Sex 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Sun 19th Aug: Tantric Sensual Massage, 12pm, R2000/ couple.

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

Women’s Month, Women’s Pleasure

August 6, 2012 in Sexual Health and Education

Women’s Month, Women’s Pleasure

 

Female sexuality is complex, not that male sexuality is simple. In fact, we’re discovering daily how complex male sexuality is.

However, this is women’s month, so we’re talking about female sexuality.

The beauty, the power, the possibilities, the pleasure…

 

Many of the women and come and see us do so to ‘improve a relationship’.

Now that’s fine, but we tell them something we think is really important.

You have to do it for yourself.

That’s so important we’re going to say it again.

You have to do it for yourself.

 

We’re brought up and conditioned with many limiting, untrue, erroneous, downright false beliefs about sexuality.

One of these, and an aspect that severely limits our pleasure, is that our sexuality is not our own.

We are sexual beings only in relation to somebody else.

And the extension of this, our bodies, our genitals our not our own.

 

From the time we’re small we’re told not to touch.

If that’s all we were told, it would be ok, because we’d do it anyway.

But we’re told it’s dirty, nasty, horrible, you’re going to go blind and all sorts of other wonderful, health- promoting things.

So our genitals become separate from who we are, something apart from the rest of our body.

We hit our teens and get hit with the hormonal nightmare of puberty.

Society in many forms adds the wonders of guilt, shame, embarrassment, misinformation and fear.

Add the natural desire for exploration and excitement and we have a state of heightened confusion.

 

One of the strongest messages that young women get at this time deals with how much pleasure she’s allowed, what ‘good girls’ can and can’t do, and the image a woman who enjoys sex is saddled with.

 

All of these ideas further separate us from our sexuality.

It becomes less about us and more about our partner’s.

 

Our sexuality and sexual experiences happen only in very prescribed boxes, in very prescribed circumstances.

That, more often than not, is dependant on somebody else.

We need their presence, their response, their participation to be sexual beings.

 

You are a sexual being in your own right.

Your sexuality, your sensuality, is about you.

It’s yours.

 

And sadly, so many women never claim their birthright.

The birthright of the Goddess.

 

The first step on this journey is knowing that you’re doing it for you.

 

That’s the first step on the journey to power, to pleasure, to freedom.

 

One of the principles of Tantra Evolution is that this journey gives you the possibility to Explore, Express and Experience all that you are. Within our sexuality and sensuality are more aspects of ourselves than any other part of life.

 

What we know is yours to help you on the path to yourself, to your Beautiful Self.

 

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

FREE TANTRA TALK

 

On Tues 7th Aug, at 7pm, we are offering a Free Talk on Tantra Evolution, The Sexual Journey, Sexual Healing and Growth.

This is at Magnificent Health, 13 6th St, Parkhurst. Please bring cushions to sit on.

 

DVD MODELS

 

We are preparing to shoot new DVD’s and are looking for models, women, men and couples. If you’re interested in taking part in this exciting project, please let us know.

 

WORKSPACE

 

We are looking to expand and move to new premises. If you know anything that may be available please let us know.

 

We had a great interview with Jenny Crwys-Williams on 702 last week, look forward to the article in The Citizen on Tues about Tantra Evolution.

 

 

THE ART OF F***ING

 

On Thurs 16 Aug we are offering a special and exciting evening together with Pharaoh’s Fantasy Club. Sex is an art, this workshop explores the art of sexual technique. We sit with a glass of wine in front of a fire and talk about oral sex, positions, fantasies, anal stimulation, some Tantric sex techniques, sex with other people, whatever you’d like to ask but never did.

After that you have the opportunity to explore the techniques in a beautiful fantasy setting.

7:30pm, R350/person.

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

Tues 7th Aug: An Intro to Tantra Evolution, 7pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 9th Aug: Expanded Orgasmic Wave, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 16th Aug: Sexual Skills, aka Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex but Never Asked, aka The Art of F***ing. 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Sun 19th Aug: Tantric Sensual Massage, 12pm, R2000/ couple.

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

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