Tantric Transformations

September 14, 2012 in Sexual Health and Education

Monsters abound in our world.

They always have, they always will.


But none are as terrible as we, for what we do to ourselves.

For what we deny ourselves.

We deny ourselves consciousness,

for it’s easier not to know what we do.

We deny ourselves choice, for it’s easier to follow.

And perhaps more than anything, we deny ourselves power, because it’s easier not to change anything, it’s easier not to be responsible.

Not to be responsible to be all we can be.

Not to be responsible to live lives of challenge and searching.

Not to be responsible to live in a way that doesn’t repeat the past.

Not to be responsible for not learning who we are, who we really are.

Not to be responsible for not looking deep into our own eyes, into our hearts, into our souls.

Not to be responsible for mediocrity.

Not to be responsible for looking to others for answers.

Not to be responsible to looking for others to change.


For to change anything in our world, we change ourselves.

Not the politicians, not the corporations, not the religions.

They’re self-serving. They always have been, they always will be.


I can’t remove the evils of the world.

I can’t remove the suffering of so many.

I can’t answer the question of why they exist.


And I can’t ask a God out there.


I can awaken a God within.

I can awaken a Goddess within.

I can each day, in the way I can, allow that God, that Goddess, expression.

I can choose that.

And I can choose to be, each day, more responsible to be conscious.

And I can choose each day to share more of that.

And that which it awakens.


And the more of us who do that, each day an almost infinitesimal amount, well, who knows what will happen…


Everything in our world is a frequency, an energy.

Every feeling, every thought, every action, every sensation, every emotion, every word, every touch, every pattern, everything we do. It’s all just an energy.

Airy-fairy, philosophical, new age, quantum physics…

Not something we think of daily in what we do, how we live.



Energy attracts energy.


I’ve often written and spoken about the transformational power of Tantra.

Annie and I sit in our studio, we listen to those who come and see us.

We want to help you with your relationships, with intimacy, with having orgasms, better orgasms, more intimacy, higher libido, better erections, no more early ejaculation, learn more about sex, find your G-Spot, connect with your sexuality, find out what spiritual sex is… All the things you come and see us for.


And we touch you.

We touch you with as much love as we can.

Whether we’re holding your heart centre or sacrum for 5 minutes.

Whether we’re doing a Yoni Massage to give you more pleasure than you’ve ever experiences.

Whether we’re doing Quiet Lingam to show a man how his heart connects to his sexuality.

Whatever we’re doing, with as much love as we can.

To help you feel, even for a few moments, pleasure, in whatever way you allow, and love, even for a few moments.


It’s all about energy.

The energy of pleasure.

Conscious Pleasure, as an expression of a higher frequency, something that comes through us, something that allows that God, that Goddess to be present. Even for a moment.


And we hope, we pray.

That beyond the problems and issues of our lives, something of this energy will touch the energy in you.

That you’ll allow yourself your power.

That you’ll become your teacher, your guru.

That you’ll become your God, your Goddess.

And that, in whatever way you express it, you’ll pass that on. To one person, to your child, to your lover, to your colleague, to your friend…


There are so many ways to express this, Conscious Pleasure.

We’ve chosen ours.

And we’ve chosen our mission, our purpose.

For our healing, our teaching, is to help you be happier, whatever that means.

To have more pleasure, whatever that means.

To know yourself more, whatever that means.

To show you, even for a moment’s reflection, that you are beautiful, that you are powerful, that your love is greater than your fear.


I once said that God is the field of all possibilities.

That’s what’s within us.

That’s what we see Tantra is.


Whether you come to this journey simply to learn more about pleasure, or to open other doors, to heal whatever it is, to learn whatever it is, to experience whatever it is, there’s power here for us.

For all of us.


We’ve learned something, we see it more every day.

The more we change ourselves, the more our world changes.

In a real way.

Pain doesn’t disappear, sadness doesn’t go away, confusion doesn’t vanish.

But they become different, they become possibilities, they become gifts.


And they all, the pain and the pleasure, become a source from which we can make conscious choices.


The answers are inside of us.

The more pleasure, the more love we allow ourselves to experience, well, what kind of answers do you think we’ll get?


We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie




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The books opened doors.

Now come and learn the truth.


This has become such an important workshop, offering so much.


Many people, more than ever, are exploring aspects of their sensuality and sexuality, in their minds, in their lives and in their relationships.


We’ve expanded this exciting evening to include: The Place of Fantasy in Your Life and Relationship, Creating Safe and Successful Experiences, Communicating Desires, How to Share Fantasies,


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