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A Sharing…

June 10, 2013 in Uncategorized

A SHARING…

Most of my work is healing, and growth.
Some of it is just about pleasure.
One of the principles of Conscious Sexuality is being able to offer pleasure experiences in a safe space. This often goes beyond the space and context that we put pleasure in.
In light of this I’d like to share something of myself with you.

Years ago I came across the work of Anthony De Mello, his writing had great impact on me and influenced me deeply.
One of, to me personally, the most important pieces he wrote was about selfishness. It caused me to look at many things in my life with a deep degree of honesty.
Amongst these were why I do what I do.
I looked at a lot of aspects of this.
One of the reasons was a love of women.
All women, all of you, are beautiful. Beautiful to touch, beautiful to pleasure.

You are beautiful.
I can tell you that. Your lover can tell you that. Your friends can tell you that. All the people in your world can tell you that.
And you know that they’re telling the truth.
But you don’t always believe them. In fact, it’s rare that you do.
There is such insecurity about our beauty.
And about our acknowledging it.
And, regardless of how often we’re told, it’s not something we accept.

But you can feel it.
You can feel beautiful.
When you’re touched with love.
When you’re acknowledged.
When your body is filled with pleasure.
When you relax, when you release, when you soften, when you open.
When you allow yourself.

It’s all about energy, about frequency, about vibration.
The energy of pleasure, of bliss, of ecstasy, shines and glimmers, it sparkles and glows.
It has colours so bright, so subtle, so magnificent we can only look at them in wonder.
It has sounds, sensations, smells, feelings, emotions, warmth, heat, fire to fill us. Fill us from deep within.
A wave of something magical that begins with a hand on your skin. A hand that becomes a path of communication, a voice without words.
A hand that is connected to a heart. A heart that is connected to something more.
And through this heart, through this hand, something flows into you.
Something beautiful.
And you feel beautiful.
You feel loved.

And part of my mission is to help you feel this.
To show you what pleasure you’re able to experience, what you can feel.
Every moment in this space is a blessing for me.
The ‘selfishness’ is that the space and the experience is as much for me as for you.
We all have certain gifts and talents, one of mine is the giving of pleasure.
I’ve learned about your body, the nerve and energy pathways, the pleasure centres, the secrets that unfold as your body reveals itself, going deeper, showing more, making its pleasure possibilities known, allowing your body to talk to me, to my hands, to guide my hands where to touch, how to touch, to take you to the places where the deepest parts of you are revealed, show themselves to be caressed, filled with ecstasy.
We’re not supposed to talk about or acknowledge the things we’re really good about it.
As I learned on my Vision Quest, do your work in the world, and do it well.
I do, and I am deeply honoured to share it with every beautiful woman I can.

We have created a beautiful workshop to share this gift of pleasure, The Caress of The Passion Flower, see the info below.
Please email or call us with any questions you have.

We wish you so much pleasure…

Jonti and Anne-Marie

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

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A FREE TALK ON SEXUAL ENERGY AND ITS PLACE IN OUR LIVES

Tues 18 June
7 pm
67 6th St, cr 2nd Ave, Parkhurst

Sexual energy is a powerful force that we can use in many ways. This is in fact our life force. We can learn to direct this beautiful energy for healing, for growth, for transformation, for self exploration and for manifestation. Come and join us as we explore what sexual energy is, what the spirit of eros is, how the flow of this energy becomes blocked, and what possibilities there may be for us to release the flow of this vital force into our lives.
http://youtu.be/N6wC7jJG7Q8

THE CARESS OF THE PASSION FLOWER, THE PEAK OF P***Y PLEASURE

Thursday 20 June R690 per couple
Pharaohs Fantasy Club

There are many ways to pleasure a woman. To take her to a place of absolute openness, a place where the sexual fire burns right through her body, filling her with the sensation of ecstasy. In this place, she is able to know her beauty, she is able to know her power.

There is an art to this, and we have created an experience guiding you on the path to the peak of pussy pleasure.

For the first time in South Africa, we’re going to share the secrets of the Passion Flower, the Yoni, the Pussy….

This experience for couples, in the sensual setting of Pharaohs’ Fantasy Club is offered to you.

If you’d like to take your partner beyond what you know pleasure to be, and give her this amazing gift, we would love to share this evening with you.

This is different from the other Sacred Sexual Massage workshops we have done.

Firstly, it is just about women’s pleasure, and how to take her to a heightened and expanded state of sensation. Secondly, it includes 3 Sexual Massage Experiences in an incredible build-up of pleasure, which includes all the new pleasure points and techniques Jonti has been developing and researching. This is the first time these have ever been shared in South Africa.

Watch this link about the workshop (NSFW ADULT CONTENT)
http://youtu.be/G9vdnRDgkhY.

 

Holding Space

January 21, 2013 in Uncategorized

Holding Space

 

One of the most powerful aspects of healing is also one of the most simple.

 

Holding, to be held.

 

To be held with love and safety.

To be held without expectation.

To be surrounded by touch, warmth, caring.

To feel loved.

 

The power of this, even for a few minutes at the end of a session, is often the trigger for the release.

This is where the tears come.

This is where we see our patterns.

This is where we let it go.

 

To be held, in quietness, in stillness.

We feel connected.

This is the thing we want more than any other.

And so many of us do so many other things purely for the few moments of being held.

 

We work with an energy we call The Heart Touch.

In simplicity it connects us with an energy within, out there, somewhere higher, deeper.

It allows us to access more resources for healing to happen.

The strongest time the Heart Touch is there is when a heart centre touches another.

 

For a long time I’ve said that sharing a Conscious Sexual Healing Space is like being someone’s lover.

Our minds immediately go to the sexual aspect of that, lovers have sex.

Lovers also Make Love.

This is not only and always about genitals.

That’s sex.

Making Love defines itself.

Making Love.

Held with love, you feel loved.

You feel safe, acknowledged, connected.

A moment from the whirlwind, the struggle, the fear, the loneliness, the guilt, the shame, the lack we live with.

A moment of peace.

A moment of being.

 

So simple.

Just to be held.

 

A study done once said that for an aspect of optimal psychological health we need 8 hugs a day.

Not the back slapping thing a lot of men do.

But a melting moment of being held, of holding.

 

Physical alienation is one of the greatest illnesses of our age.

So many of us have little contact with others.

Intimate contact.

Once again, intimate does not mean sexual.

 

What’s sad is that for so many, touching, holding, intimacy has become connected to sex. So many couples only touch when it’s about sex.

It’s conditional.

 

Holding with love has no condition, no expectation.

A moment of giving and receiving, sharing something so human that we cannot but respond.

In this space you feel the walls and barriers, the distance we put between ourselves and others, how little of our bodies we touch with, how tense we are in being so close to another, how men are terrified of that closeness to another man, how a hug is a chance to touch inappropriately…

 

I remember a workshop I did a long time ago that had a ‘hug process’, which was similar to a Tantric Hug.

At the end of this, and all it involved was a warm embrace, there were very few dry eyes.

 

If we allow ourselves to hold, to be held, we will Behold that we are Beautiful Human Beings.

And we will Behold the power, the peace, the love that comes from this.

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

Jonti & Anne-Marie

 

Holding Healing Experiences

 

We have developed a range of Holding Experiences as part of our journey into Conscious Sexuality for couples and single people that fills us with excitement to share with you.

 

We are offering, for the 1st time, an experiential evening of Holding Space in Cape Town.

When we’re back in Jo’burg we’ll set a date for this beautiful and powerful experience.

 

A Free Talk on Conscious Sexuality and The Sexual Journey

Wed 23rd Jan, 7 pm.

 

This evening is an introduction to the principles of Conscious Sexuality, what a journey of sexual exploration, growth and healing involves, the possibilities it brings, how we can use sexual energy and more.

 

Booking is essential.

67 6th St, cr 2nd Ave, Parkhurst.

 

Cape Town

 

We will be in Cape Town from Mon 28th Jan.

The sessions and workshops will be at 18 Wellington Avenue, Wynberg

In this week we are offering private lessons, sessions of healing, growth and exploration, massage experiences for men, women and couples.

 

A Free Talk on Conscious Sexuality and The Sexual Journey

Come and meet us, say hi, we’ll share our understanding of Conscious Sexuality, what the sessions and workshops involve etc.

Mon 28th Jan, 7pm.

 

Holding Space

This is an experiential evening of connection and healing.

In a space of safety you’ll be able to hold, to be held, to feel, to be, to learn the Heart Connection and how to express it, being surrounded by touch…

This is a space of deep sharing with others, it has the possibility of release, of revitalisation, of affirming our humanness, the moments of stillness, of breath become a meditation of inspiration.

This is for singles and couples.

Please bring cushions and sarongs.

Wed 30th Jan, 7pm, R350/person.

 

We are excited to share a day of Tantric Sensual Massage and Sacred Sexual Massage on Sat 2nd Feb.

This is an experiential day for couples that includes the Heart Touch, Principles of Conscious Sexuality, Sensual Flow Touch, Healing Through Sensuality, Sacred Sexual Massage for Men and Women, Quiet Lingam, Deep G-Spot Stimulation and more…Much more…

Besides the amazing learning of the day it’s also a time of indulgence in sensuality and touch with your partner. You’ll experience a deep sense of closeness and connection, and the pleasure, oh the pleasure…

The Sensual Massage Workshop begins at 11 am, is approximately 5 hrs, lunch is included, R2200/couple.

Sacred Sexual Massage starts at 6 pm, R800/couple.

Both workshops will be R2500/couple.

 

Workshops

 

We will soon have a new workshop schedule, until then we are available for private lessons and sessions.

 

A Special Evening of Exploring Sexuality

with Lara and Jonti

Tantra Evolution and Pharaohs Fantasy Club are presenting a special evening for couples wishing to explore their sexuality.

In a safe space, with laughter and fun, we’re going to look at the truth of exploring sensuality, sexuality and eroticism with others.

The first part of the evening is a relaxed discussion. We’ll have a glass of wine, a snack…

We’ll talk about the possibilities, what these experiences may involve, creating safety, communication, exploring fantasies, what happens after, the difference between sensual and sexual experiences etc.

After this you’re welcome to leave, allow what we’ve spoken about to sink in, have a discussion with your partner.

If you’d to stay and begin a gentle exploration of the possibilities, we’re going to guide you through some gentle experiences.

This world can be very exciting. It can also be challenging and scary.

The experiences can add to your relationship or be destructive.

We’d like to help you make a conscious choice from a place of possibility not fear.

We’ll have a date for this soon.

www.tantraevolution.com

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The Doorway of Sexual Technique

November 23, 2012 in Uncategorized

The Doorway of Sexual Technique

 

We’ve lately been talking a lot about sexual technique, watching a range of DVD’s that people have given to us and reading a fair amount of articles on aspects of techniques.

We teach a wide range of sexual techniques on our workshops and in private lessons. It’s also something we include in journeys of healing and growth.

Many people come and see us to improve this aspect of their lives.

 

We’d like to share some thoughts with you about technique.

 

It’s often the first part of a journey of sexual learning.

This comes from a few places.

One of these is understanding that we just don’t know enough about sex to really give our partner’s great pleasure.

We don’t know enough about our bodies, about their bodies, about where, even what, everything is, where it is, how to find it, what you do with it once you’ve found it…

 

Then there’s the how to. How to do many of the things we’ve read about, heard about, seen in movies, found on the internet, what’s the truth about various acts, experiences etc.

 

Sometimes, for both men and women, this is ego driven.

There is a great emphasis in our society on information. We’re taught that the more information we have, the more we know, the better we’ll be at something, the better we’ll do it.

That’s the key word here.

Do, doing.

We want to ‘doing a good lover’.

 

Some of the problems with sexual information are where it comes from, how much is actually myth as opposed to truth, and how is it contextualised, what does it link to, connect to.

And most important of all, what doors does it open.

 

This is where a sexual journey, and the way we express, explore and experience our sexuality, is not only a reflection of our life, but also a space and opportunity to change other areas of our lives.

 

The first element of this is understanding that our sexual patterns are the deepest we have.

 

Then seeing that the amount of information we’re going to be exposed to is always limited. As technology moves in our world the amount of information put out in every field grows at a pace we simply cannot keep up with.

Connected to this is the source of the information and it’s level of truth.

Just because it’s in a book, on the web, even in mainstream media is no longer an indication of its truth and validity.

This is particularly true when it comes to research, who funded the research, what’s the point they’re fulfilling, what idea, product etc is it out to enhance.

And in terms of information, all that we do is repeat what we’ve read, heard or seen with very little personal input or discernment.

Especially when it comes to sex.

Because he or she is a porn star, has a lot of sex, they must know…

 

To be gently tactful, I think not.

 

We’d like to offer you a perspective that sexual technique, in all its wonderful possibilities, is a doorway.

On it’s own it certainly is going to give you more information.

If you don’t know about the G-Spot, A- Spot, His deep pleasure spots, sexual breathing, some Tantra etc, you are definitely lacking as a lover.

And if that’s all you know, as much as you might know, you are definitely lacking as a lover.

 

The techniques are doorways, portals.

To emotional connection, to exploring your inner world, your partner’s inner world, your hearts, your souls, your minds…

They show you where you’ve come from, what your journey has been, the decisions you made about relationships, about your body, about sex, mostly before you were even consciously thinking about sex.

The techniques become a way in .

They also become a way out of where we are to something else, something more, something, deeper, higher, whatever it is we’re looking for.

 

This is where we have to step beyond information into knowing.

The first level of knowing is experiencing, feeling, sensation, emotion.

We have to be open. Even if it’s just the willingness at first. Because so many of us have become so closed, so disconnected, so compartmentalised.

When we’ll ourselves to start knowing, we start the journey to power, to empowerment.

Then it becomes less about what somebody told us, what we read or heard, it becomes more about what we KNOW. Our inner resources, our gifts and talents, what we have within.

It becomes more about our truth, more about who we are rather than how much we know. It’s more about what we know.

What has value, what expands us, what grows us, what brings us greater fulfillment, more joy, more love, more excitement, more adventure…

 

It becomes, our sexuality, our relationship, our experiences, our lives, become a personal expression of who we are, REALLY are.

Growing, expanding, asking, seeking, searching, changing beings.

The gift of many sexual techniques, the different Massage Techniques, Expanded Orgasm, Tantra, the Taoist Practices and more, so much more, is their opening us to more.

Learning them is just the first step.

Will you have more pleasure? Absolutely!

But there’s more, so much more.

 

It’s a choice.

Most of us have chosen to be consciously unconscious.

Our lives, our relationships, our country and our world clearly show this.

 

There is a way to have, even if it’s just a little more, a little more pleasure, a slightly deeper connection, a little more intimacy, a definitely more intense orgasm…

 

And once you’ve opened the door, well, he said with a knowing smile, once you’ve opened the door..

 

Anne-Marie writes:

So many women are eager to learn more about how to pleasure their men, and I’ve always wondered why men don’t seem so eager. I’ve come to realize that they are just as eager, they do want to know more about their partners, but just don’t know where to go to get the REAL information. Our workshop for men only,  “What Women Want” on the 27th November is a way for men to safely be guided in some real knowledge and practicalities that can change their sexual, sensual and intimacy levels with their partners forever. I stand by the statement that a truly pleasured women really does want to have a lot of sex, play, and sensual interaction, and often women will not tell their partners what they really want. So, come and learn with us, hear the truth, open yourself to more pleasure for yourself through really learning about your partner…

 

Workshops & Events

 Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

  Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

  or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

  Johannesburg Workshops

 

 

  Tuesday 27th November, 7pm, R350/person.

  What Women Want

  An evening for men only talking about the mystery of women.

  This fun, exciting and expanding evening includes aspects of communication, how men and women communicate differently, the difference between sex and sensuality, the secret of what women REALLY want sexually, some secrets from The Art of F**king, how to find her G-Spot…

  We will also do a live Yoni Massage demo, showing you some of the pleasure possibilities.

 

  Thursday 29th November, 7:30pm, R350/person.

  An evening of Sensual Play for couples

 

  Saturday 1st December

  The Goddess Awakening

  A full day workshop for women only, starting with a breathwork session in the morning, how breath and relaxation can open up libido and sexual energy as well as energy for the day to day requirements of being a women, then a light lunch and moving into learning the principles of  Solo Expanded Orgasm and the practical experience of that in the afternoon.

 

 

 CAPE TOWN WORKSHOPS

 We’d love to share with you in Dec and have so much to offer.

 As well as the workshops, we have created a beautiful new experience, we would like to offer the opportunity for some deep healing, learning, exploring and growth.

 We plan to be in Cape Town for Dec and are available for private journeys for singles and couples.

 This is an opportunity to clear sexual blockages, free your sexual energy, release the patterns of the past and open the door to doing things differently in your life.

 These programmes will be 4-6 sessions, each is personalised based on your energy and needs.

 The workshops and healing/growth programmes are dependent on your bookings. We’d really appreciate your sharing this info with people you know who may be interested.

 The workshop venue will be confirmed soon.

 Discounts are avilable for attending more than 1 workshop.

 

 An Introduction to Tantra Evolution, Mon 3rd Dec, 7pm, R350/person.

 A talk on Tantra Evolution, the principles of exploring, healing and growing in sexuality, the power of sensuality, what spiritual sex is, the difference between Tantric and Taoist sexuality etc.

 We’ll share some gentle exercises of sensuality.

 We’ll also talk about the workshops and healing journeys.

 This is for singles and couples.

 

 Expanded Orgasm With a Difference, Tues 4th Dec, 7pm, R350/person.

 

 An Evening of Tantric Sensual Experience, Wed 5th Dec, 7pm, R350/person.

 A new experience we have created, a time of giving and receiving, healing, growing, feeling. You are guided through processes of touch and sharing, experiencing the beauty of your body in a gentle, non-sexual way, feeling your heart, feeling your soul.

 This experience involves nudity, singles and couples.

 

 The G-Spot and Other Elements of Female Sexuality, Thurs 6th Dec, 7pm, R350/person.

 A fascinating evening into the mysteries of the Yoni, the G-Spot, The A-Spot, Extended Clitoral Nerves and more.

 We look at sexual patterning, why women struggle to experience internal orgasms, the messages we are given and the impact on our pleasure, sexuality and relationships. The evening includes how to find your, or her G-Spot, how to wake up to deeper and more fulfilling pleasure.

 There will be an opportunity for practical exploration after the workshop.

 This is for singles and couples.

 

 Tantric Sensual Massage and Sacred Sexual Massage, Sat 8th Dec.

 Sensual Massage begins at 12pm, R2000/couple, Sacred Sexual Massage at 6pm, R800/couple, R2300 for both.

 

 We wish you so much pleasure

 Jonti and Anne-Marie

Tantra Evolution

October 3, 2012 in Uncategorized

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Tantra Evolution

The work that we do, all that we offer, is a guide on the path of light…..

Welcome to the world of Tantra Evolution.
We offer a framework, a philosophy and a practical space for healing, growing, exploring, expressing and experiencing sensuality and sexuality.
So what does that really mean and what do we actually do?
We work with singles and couples of all ages, backgrounds and sexual orientations. What we have created is accessible to everybody, regardless of the beliefs you have. We will find a way to make this wonderful world of Tantra Evolution available to you. We draw from many sources as well as develop much of what we do ourselves. As much value there is in ancient teachings, we have to make these accessible to us. The energy paradigms in our world have changed, we need to change accordingly.
First we offer a range of workshops that teach sensual and sexual skills. Most of the workshops are for singles as well as couples. If a workshop is for couples, or you need a partner, the info will say. If a workshop involves nudity, the info will say. On most of the workshops that include genital techniques, particularly those that are for single people, we use latex models to show these. Workshops run from a few hours to full day, we also do weekend retreats from time to time. Most of the workshops are available as private lessons.
The healing work we do covers a vast spectrum. People come to see us for a variety of reasons. These include sexual problems such as erection problems, early ejaculation, painful sex, inability to orgasm, loss of libido etc. Relationship issues are connected to this, lack of intimacy, communication etc. Then there are those who have are not in relationship but would like to give themselves a chance to make it different.
The next aspect of this is exploring aspects of ourselves using sexuality and sexual energy as a tool for growth and healing. This involves looking at the patterns of our lives, what we’ve done, how we’ve done it, and what we’d like it to be. We go into the shadow, look at the sexual-spiritual connection, how to integrate sexuality and sensuality into our lives, the connection between sexuality and creativity, using sexual energy for manifestation, getting more in touch with our sexuality, freeing ourselves from inhibitions….
We have developed a unique perspective on healing and growth that is based on pleasure rather than pain. In short… Mostly we go for healing of anything to release, change or fix a pain. The pain becomes the focus. When we heal with pleasure, we’re healing with possibility and potential. The frequency of pleasure is much higher than that of pain. Healing is quicker, deeper, the changes in our lives happen with joy, the possibilities become wonder-filled.
The way we work with healing and growth journeys is that we get together, you or you and your partner, talk about the issues, what you’d like to do, then recommend a programme, tell you what it involves and costs.
So much of our focus is on the body, being a house for all that’s happened to us, as well as a doorway in to change the energy patterns that are the way we live and the things we do. As part of this expression of Tantra Evolution we offer a range of body experiences which include Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Double Goddess Massage, Tantric Massage, Yoni and Lingam Massage.
We also offer training for those who’d like to into this work, as well as helping practitioners in other fields incorporate sexuality into their work.
We invite you to share with us…
Jonti & Anne-Marie
Please visit our website, www.tantraevolution.com or email us, jontisearll@mweb.co.za for more info.
DVD SPECIAL
On the last day of SEXPO we made a great offer for our DVD’s. We’d like to extend this for 1 week ONLY. All 6 titles, Expanded Orgasm, Simple Pleasures, Intro to Tantra, Tantric Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage and Lingam Massage for R1000.
‘Of all the things I bought at sexpo, these dvd’s have already made us so happy, they are going to change our lives, nobody should be without them ‘. EW
WORKSHOPS – Johannesburg
An Evening of Sensual Play for Couples
Sensuality is how we play. In an exciting fantasy setting we’re going to explore sensation and fun, touch and laughter, and maybe a moan of pleasure or two… Thurs 4th Oct, 7:30 pm, R800/couple.
Expanded Orgasmic Wave
This is such important learning on the sexual journey. The workshop gives you a different perspective on pleasure, genital information, an incredible technique that allows a woman to be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, how men can have orgasms without ejaculating and becoming multi-orgasmic and more, sexual communication, moving sexual energy in the body, how to experience this on your own, using sexual energy for meditation and more… The techniques are demonstrated on latex models of the genitals. This workshop is for singles and couples. Tues 9th Oct, 7 pm, R350/person, includes The Expanded Orgasm E-Book.Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

 

 

Tantric Sensual  Massage, Sun 14th Oct.

A day of sensual delights, pleasure, connection and intimacy.

Step into the amazing and unique world of sensual massage, learn The Heart Touch, Bliss Body Massage, Energy Connection, Full-Body Creative Touch, Building The Sexual Fire and more…

Sensual Massage begins at 12pm, R2000/couple, snacks included.

 

Cape Town Workshops

 

 

We are really excited to be coming back to Cape Town.

This journey is so filled with magic, pleasure, growth, healing, connection and intimacy.

The workshops and experiences offer a safe space to explore, grow and expand the beauty and power of your magnificent self.

 

 

The workshops are at The Novalis Ubuntu Centre in Kenilworth.

We are offering Early Booking Discounts of 15%, as well as discounts for attending more than 1 workshop.

Please contact us for this info.

 

 

We will also be available for private sessions, healing and Tantric Body Experiences including Yoni Massage, Quiet Lingam etc.

 

 

We begin with a Free Talk on Mon 15th Oct.

We’ll talk about The Sexual Journey, what it involves, sexual healing, the possibilities of pleasure, what the workshops include, what happens on the workshops etc.

 

 

An Intro to Tantra, Tues 16th, 7pm, R350/person

Expanded Orgasm, Wed 17th, 7pm, R350/person

The Art of Sex, Thurs 18th, 7pm, R350/person

Conscious Self-Pleasuring, Mon 22nd, 7pm, R350/person

Awakening Your Inner Sexual Being, Tues 23rd, 7pm, R350/person

Fifty Shades of Pleasure, Wed 24th, 7pm, R350/person

Tantric Sensual Massage, Sat 27th, 11pm, R2000/couple

Sacred Sexual Massage, Sat 27th, 6pm, R800/couple, R2400 for both.

We are considering offering Taoist Sexual Energy massage as a workshop on Sun 28th as well, if bookings permit R2000 a couple.

For FAQ’s about workshops go to www.tantraevolution.com

 

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Sensual Spring Specials

September 7, 2012 in Uncategorized

My friend and fellow Tantrica Ro Reddy posted an interesting article, ‘Why Vagina’s, which were once worshipped, have become taboo’. The link to the article is at the end of this.

 

There’s a quote in the article from Naomi Wolf, ‘an increasing body of scientific evidence that suggests that the vagina has a fundamental connection to female consciousness’.

 

This is such an important aspect of the work we do, almost daily we see it’s place in the sexual journey.

 

We tell almost every woman something, because it’s true.

You have an incredibly powerful sexuality.

It’s so important to hear.

You have an incredibly powerful sexuality.

 

But you know this.

If not consciously, deep inside.

You felt it, maybe a long time.

You knew it was there.

It’s still there.

It may be dormant.

It may need to be woken, like a banked fire needs to be blown on, stirred…

 

And a vital part of this process is connecting with your Yoni.

Owning her, opening a conversation with her, allowing her to tell you how she feels, what she wants, how angry she is with you for all you’ve denied her…

Healing her…

Healing you…

 

And beginning to claim, to reclaim your power.

Because, My Goddess, you have such power.

Power to such pleasure.

Power to such love.

Power to such energy.

Power to such creative possibilities.

 

This power is yours.

It’s connected to no one else.

It has nothing to do with whether you’re in a relationship or not.

In fact, making this journey when you’re not in a relationship has such value for you, it can have such impact on many areas of your life.

And on future relationships.

 

We offer our knowledge to guide you on this journey.

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

 

We’d like to offer you some Sensual Spring Specials.

 

Opening to Your Yoni

 

A 5 session programme to help you begin to connect to your Yoni, to start the communication between Yoni and Heart, to open the dialogue, to learn Yoni Meditation, to experience the power you have and more…

This includes 1 workshop of your choice.

The programme is R2800.

 

Journeys of Healing, Growth and Exploration

 

We are offering 15% discount on these programmes for the next 2 weeks.

 

DVD Special

 

We are releasing 2 new DVD’s, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage and Self-Pleasuring for Women, and we have redone Expanded Orgasm to include new information.

The DVD’s are R300 each, the Pre-SEXPO launch, for the next 10 days only, all 3 for R600.

 

There are still a few places available for female models for SEXPO. This is an opportunity for a great experience and adventure.

 

Tuesday 11th Sept Workshop, 7pm, R350 per woman

Expanded Orgasm on your own (women only)

This workshop teaches you as a woman how to have the Expanded Orgasm Experience on your own, without a partner. Anne-Marie teaches you how to make this happen on your own, with an anatomy lesson demonstrated on a latex model. You bring blankets, sarongs and cushions, and then we gently travel into having this experience, with low lighting and soft music, and I talk and guide you through it. There’s no necessity for nudity, you can be covered at all times.

 

Expanded Orgasm allows a woman to be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, opens the energy channels in the body to increase orgasmic potential, helps women who struggle to orgasm,and can be used for increasing libido, manifestation energy and huge energy and creativity releases.

 

 

The forthcoming workshops, Sensual Play for couples on Thurs 13th, and Fifty Shades on Thurs 20th are just the most exciting and fun way to spend an evening. Come play…

 

Article Link: http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/men-women/why-have-vaginas–which-were-once-worshipped–become-taboo-8092761.html.

 

Desire & Fear

August 26, 2012 in Uncategorized

Desire

 

Fear not your desire.

For it has keys to your purpose, to your journey, to your healing, to your growth, to your transcendence.

And to your freedom.

 

Most of us fear the desires we have.

They come to mind, make themselves known.

We feel them in our body.

We feel them deep.

And we feel them strong.

We feel their fire.

And it consumes us.

It has power, beyond reason.

 

We don’t understand this desire.

We don’t know its source.

But it draws us.

We know that, we feel it.

 

And it scares us, terrifies us.

We have very few, if any, place to express the desire.

These places are not only physical, they’re also emotional.

For to even share the words of these takes us to places of absolute vulnerability, of revealing ourselves.

We open to judgement, we open to ridicule.

 

For the desires go the darkest places within us.

 

And as we suppress them, we suppress our deepest selves.

We suppress some of the most important keys to our growth and purpose.

For what we suppress owns us, controls us.

And beyond the desires, the reasons for keeping the desires hidden, is fear.

So our pleasure becomes fearful.

Guilt, shame, embarrassment, inhibition, they are all offshoots of fear.

 

If we’re willing to go there, to go into ourselves.

Simply to acknowledge ourselves, to look into our own beings, into the mirror.

Firstly, we take the light with us.

And where the light is, there cannot be darkness.

 

Then we begin to receive the keys to an inner world with a depth of information, knowledge and truth of who we are.

Who we are in truth.

And we begin to see where our power may lie.

 

And as we journey into these mists, we free ourselves from the shame, from the guilt, the embarrassment, from the inhibitions.

From the fear.

The fear of life.

The fear of celebration.

The fear of courage.

 

And the fear of pleasure.

Not only sexual, sensual pleasure.

But the pleasure of life, of LIFE, of LOVE.

 

This doesn’t mean that all desires are expressed.

For in our inner worlds, extreme may be the norm.

However, acknowledging them, naming them, coming to know them, giving voice to them.

And giving life to some of them.

In safety, in a space that allows us to go into that world to claim ourselves, reclaim ourselves, know ourselves.

 

Fear not your desire.

Fear not your pleasure.

Fear not your freedom.

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

We have recently rebranded all of our DVD’s, and are offering the full Tantra Evolution set consisting of 6 titles Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures, Sensual Massage, Expanded Orgasm and Introduction to Tantra at R800 while stocks last.

 

SEXPO

 

SEXPO is fast approaching, 27-30 Sept at NASREC.

We are doing talks every day as well as Sensual Massage Demo’s and a Bondage Play Demo.

If you’d like to be a model for these experiences, have fun and excitement, please let us know. Your face does not have to be seen.

 

 

Johannesburg Workshops:

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself. This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more. We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, you do not have to be naked, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person

 

Expanded Orgasm On Your Own for Women

(Women Only Workshop)

A practical workshop teaching women how to be in an Expanded Orgasmic state for over an hour! Taken from the principles of our Expanded Orgasm Workshop, this is a technique designed for women to have the Expanded Orgasmic experience on their own. This technique is an incredible tool for women who struggle with orgasm, or who want higher states of pleasure. With soft candlelight and gentle music, you will be guided through the experience. Although this is a practical experience, you can bring pillows and blankets for your comfort and privacy.

Tuesday 11 September, 7pm, R350 /person

 

An Evening of Sensual Play for Couples

Join us at Pharaohs for an exciting evening of exploring sensual play with your partner. In a fantasy setting we’ll go on a journey of fun and adventure of play, laughter and delicious sensations.

Thurs 13 Sept, R700/couple.

 

FIFTY SHADES

The evening we did last month was so successful, we’re doing it again.

In conjunction with Bella Rouge and Pharaohs Fantasy Club we’re going to talk about exploring fantasies, opening the conversation with your partner, rules for play and exploring, how to have successful experiences, practical advice and more…

Toy hampers available at a special price.

Thurs 20th Sept, 7:30 pm, R300/person.

 

 

For more info and FAQ’s please visit www.tantraevolution.com

The Pleasure Space

August 20, 2012 in Uncategorized

The Pleasure Space

 

For most of us the Pleasure Space is brief, very brief. 20 or 30 seconds of orgasmic contractions, with a few minutes of afterglow. Which is such a beautiful expression, but is actually more than that. It has a key to one of the purposes of sexuality.

 

Many of us of had, at some point in our lives, an experience that has taken us beyond those few moments.

 

We’ve had an experience of The Pleasure Space.

We’ve lost ourselves.

Totally, utterly, completely.

We’ve gone beyond our bodies, out of our minds, we’ve transcended the boundaries of this reality.

We’ve left the physicality of this world and touched another.

We’ve touched a world of mystery, of magic, of spirit.

A world of being.

A world of knowing.

For a few moments we’ve seen something, we’ve felt something more.

 

And for so many of us, we have no idea how to get back there.

So we put the experience in our memories, we visit it with longing.

We’ve been there, we’ve tasted it, touched it, floated in it, it’s washed over us, through us.

It’s spark lives somewhere inside of us.

It never leaves us.

It never goes out.

 

For something mystical, something eternal, something that has elements of God, of Goddess, can never leave us once it’s touched us.

 

This is The Pleasure Space.

And our bodies are a portal to get there.

Our sexual energy is the fuel to take us there.

The connection of Genitals, Heart and Spirit unite in the trinity of possibility.

Desire, Sacred Desire, is the spark.

The sexual fire is lit, and it’s often kindled in the depths, in the darkness.

We imbue the flames with Passion.

We allow them to burn.

We allow them to take us beyond what we know.

We allow their heat to give us courage to release ourselves.

We allow them to rise.

We allow them to consume us.

We allow them burn our shell away.

We allow ourselves to touch our essence.

 

For only in this space can we enter The Pleasure Space.

To know Love.

Without judgement, without border, without definition, without limit.

For The Pleasure Space is the field of possibility.

 

And when we return, we are changed.

We are filled with afterglow.

A light within us, a fire that may dip low.

But a breath on the coals of our sexuality brings it once again to life.

 

This is there for all of us.

It’s nothing new, it’s ancient.

It’s not spiritual gobbledegook.

It’s real.

It’s where our humanity touches our divinity.

And it’s there for all of us.

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

SPECIAL OFFER

 

For Women’s Month, all massage and body experiences, Sensual Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Double Goddess Massages are R600, usually R800.

 

We have recently rebranded all of our DVD’s, and are offering the full Tantra Evolution set consisting of 6 titles Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures, Sensual Massage, Expanded Orgasm and Introduction to Tantra at R800 while stocks last.

 

Sacred Sexual Massage

 

Join us on Thurs night for an erotic experience, a learning experience, an intimate experience, an experience of Sacred Sexual Massage.

The massage will teach you Deep Yoni stimulation including The G-Spot, The A-Spot, Heightened Pleasure States for men and women, Quiet Lingam and more.

This exciting evening for couples offers learning and then the experience of the massage with your partner.

7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Double Goddess Massage

 

Watch the YouTube clip, see the link below for a beautiful moment of the massage.

‪Designed as a massage to enable and empower women to be able to just receive pleasure with no reciprocation in a safe environment of sexual/kundalini energy.

This massage opens women up to pleasure in a new pattern.

Most women struggle enormously with the concept of “just receiving” especially in a pleasure state, this breaks the pattern of needing to reciprocate, often leading to deep sexual healing and altered states of pleasure and relaxation for women.

Holistically speaking, treating the body in its’ entirety is very healing, often we draw more attention to the parts we leave out than the parts we include.

In Tantric practice, the body is treated as a whole, including genitals.

Performed by both male and female practitioners at the same time, the exquisite sensations of being touched with love by four hands can be life changing.

 

http://youtu.be/dAESm-_9jFg

 

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

 

 

Johannesburg Workshops:

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person

 

 

 

Workshops

July 30, 2012 in Uncategorized

On Mon 30th July, Anne-Marie and I are going on 702 at 3pm, talking about Tantra and SEXPO with Jenny Crwys-Williams.

 

On Thurs 2nd Aug we are offering an exciting evening based on 50 Shades of Grey.

In Conjunction with Bella Rouge and Pharaohs Fantasy Club we have a package which includes:

The 50 Shades Trilogy for R300.

The 50 Shades Toy Hamper for R700. This includes Ben Wa balls, prostate stimulator, lubricant, sexy, submissive set (velvet restraints, blindfold and feather tickler) and a crop (all valued at R850).

The 50 Shades Unveiled Workshop for R250.

The workshop tells you how to use the toys, how to create a safe space for exploration and play, sexual communication, the power of fantasy, introducing new ideas and play into your relationship, how to plan experiences and more…

 

We’re preparing to shoot new DVD’s on Tantra, Taoist Massage, Self-Pleasuring for Women and we’re looking for models, men, women and couples. If you’re interested, or know anybody who may be interested in taking part in this exciting adventure, please contact us.

 

Tues 7th Aug: An Intro to Tantra Evolution, 7pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 9th Aug: Expanded Orgasmic Wave, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 16th Aug: Sexual Skills, aka Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex but Never Asked, aka The Art of F***ing. 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Sun 19th Aug: Tantric Sensual Massage, 12pm, R2000/ couple.

 

Thurs 23rd Aug: Sacred Sexual Massage, 7:30pm, R800/couple.

 

Thurs 30th Aug: Conscious Self-Pleasuring, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 6th Sept: Tantric Sex, 7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

We wish you so much pleasure

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

www.tantraevolution.com

www.tantraevolution.wordpress.com

(note ADULT content on following site)

www.sensualmassagetantraevolution.tumblr.com

www.tantraevolution.tumblr.com

 

From the Darkness into the Light

July 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

From The Dark to The Light

 

Sex is the part of life that many, maybe even most of us fear the most.

 

We keep it in the dark, we keep it dirty.

We keep it from being open, honest, non-judgemental.

 

We keep it from being beautiful.

We keep it from being powerful.

This is what we fear most.

 

We fear the freedom it gives us.

We fear the challenge it brings.

 

We fear the knowledge that this connects us to the highest in us more than any other aspect of ourselves and our lives.

 

We fear the knowledge that this act of love is an expression of the energy of God, of the Goddess.

 

So we teach our children fear.

We don’t give them tools for pleasure, for successful experiences, fulfilling relationships.

We teach them guilt, shame, embarrassment.

We teach them myth, misinformation and misuse

We teach them prejudice and limitation.

We don’t teach them a culture of communication.

We don’t teach them what it is to be a man or woman.

We teach them suppression, repression.

 

We don’t teach them of the light, we don’t teach them of the power.

We don’t teach them of possibility.

We don’t teach them of the magic.

We don’t teach them of fun.

 

We close our eyes, we close our ears, we hang our heads, we pretend.

We allow the shame to exist.

We allow the prejudice to spread.

 

We allow the pain of not expressing ourselves, of not experiencing the fullness of pleasure, of love, of intimacy, of connection to pervade our lives and relationships.

 

We allow the warped messages of pornography and the media to colour our experiences.

It’s easier for nudity to be forbidden.

It’s easier for there to be ‘dirty’ pictures, movies, books…

It’s safer.

 

Safer for who?

Safer to keep us, ourselves, our children, our society, in the dark.

Safer for the pain this causes to be present in the world on a large scale, and safer for us in the immediacy of our lives.

 

And it’s all rooted in fear.

 

How can love exist, thrive, grow, spread, in the presence of fear?

How can Spirit be present in such fear?

How can the heart be free in such fear?

How can acceptance exist in such fear?

How can the Sacred flow into us, through us, how can it be a part of our lives, a part of our world in such fear?

 

I’ve recently been through a time of disconnection, questioning, feeling adrift…

We’ve encountered a great deal of prejudice and fear.

 

This is a re-dedication, a re-commitment, a re-connection.

From myself, from Anne-Marie.

Workshop by workshop, talk by talk, DVD by DVD, audio book by audio book, touch by touch, massage by massage, healing session by healing session, orgasm by orgasm, release by release…

 

We honour and thank all those who share with us.

We honour and thank all the healers, teachers and practitioners around the world.

 

As we move from the darkness to the light…

 

We are getting excited about being in Cape Town next week, sharing with you. Come on Mon 16th to the Free Talk, meet us, hear about The Sexual Journey, experiences we’ve shared, what the workshops involve etc. All bookings through Jonti, jontisearll@mweb.co.za, 083 7435 129.

Please bring cushions to sit on for all the evening workshops.

 

The pool we had for the Water Flow Massage has been withdrawn, it’s sad to see the fear that fills so many lives.

Please let us know if you know of any pool that may be possible.

We’re also looking for healing space for private sessions and massage experiences, private or in a centre. Please share your suggestions with us.

We’ve added something to the Expanded Orgasmic Wave workshop in Cape Town on Wed 18 July.

The possibility of experiencing the amazing pleasure.

The workshop will be complete, if you’d like to stay afterwards and have the experience, ask questions, get advice etc, this will be available. There’s no extra charge for this.

The workshop is for singles and couples.

 

 

The Massage Experiences for men, women and couples are a time of deep healing, relaxation and pleasure. They offer a safe space to explore and experience many aspects of your self, your sensuality and sexual energy.

 

DVD Special

 

For this week only, the full set of Tantra Evolution DVD’s, 6 titles to enhance your sexual pleasure for R1000, save R800 off the full price.

The set includes: Expanded Orgasm, Sensual Massage, Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Simple Pleasures and An Intro To Tantra.

There is more info on the DVD’s on our website, www.tantraevolution.com.

 

We’re doing something special on Thurs.

A practical experience of The Amazing, Incredible Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re teaching the workshop, teaching you about the principle and technique of Expanded Orgasm. Then an opportunity for you to experience this, get tips, ask questions etc.

This is for singles and couples.

7:30 pm, R350/person.

 

Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Thurs 12 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re doing something special on Thurs.

A practical experience of The Amazing, Incredible Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

We’re teaching the workshop, teaching you about the principle and technique of Expanded Orgasm. Then an opportunity for you to experience this, get tips, ask questions etc.

This is for singles and couples.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

7:30pm, R350/person.

 

Cape Town Workshop Programme

 

The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 13 July.

 

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey, 7pm, singles and couples

 

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

7pm R350 per person, for singles and couples

 

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked….)

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

11am – 4pm R2000 per couple

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

R800 per couple

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Wed 25 July For Women Only Workshop.

7pm, R350 per person

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking it short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For more detailed information on workshops and FAQ’s please visit

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Creating Safety Consciously

July 2, 2012 in Uncategorized

Anne-Marie writes:

As I’ve journeyed on my Tantric path, one of the things that has amazed me is how awareness and consciousness of self brings a way of being “moral” and “righteous” without the need to have others subscribe to exactly the same code as yourself.

Conscious people naturally take others needs and boundaries into consideration, without limiting themselves or their own spiritual growth. It’s a standing apart from the judgement that many moral systems impose, whilst treating firstly yourself, then others with honour and unconditional love.

This has really been a huge revelation to me, as rules, regulations and boundaries have always given me such “safety”. The reason for all the inverted commas? Realizing that all the words in inverted commas are actually not real, but concepts.

 

They feel real.

 

Which is why we subscribe to them. It’s actually only when they are given power and switched on internally for us as human beings that they work.

 

When there are rules in society that everyone is expected to follow, in a very fear based paradigm, when offenders are punished for breaking them, we have a sense of “safety” that is not necessarily real. For people do not all subscribe and follow the same rules, many break what they consider to be the stupid rules, and some murder and pillage.

 

And that outrages us, the ones who follow most of the rules.

 

I sat in my ivory tower judging those who broke the rules.

And as I began to examine myself, my rules, the ones I subscribed to in society, I realized I didn’t agree with all of them.

Now what to do? I want to live in a society that is not a free for all with anarchy, looting and bad driving, so how do I find a way?

 

I started as I think every well intentioned person does.

With a new list of rules!!!!

And then another, and another….

 

Until I got it. Although we’re not ready to be a completely rule free society yet, awareness and consciousness of yourself is the key.

 

You design safety in yourself, by looking at your desires, your fears, your love, your limitations, what SERVES you.

You design safety in yourself by releasing that which does not work for you anymore.

 

The things that gave me pleasure when I was a child are not the same things I like to do all the time anymore.

I do not wish to play dolls.

I still like to lie under my duvet with the electric blanket on and read a book.

 

What makes us think that at age 21 we suddenly just become an adult and everything falls into place? That’s actually a ridiculous concept. I was not the same at 9 as I was at 15. I am not the same at 41 as I was at 35.

I examine myself, what is working in my life, where lies my safety given to me by others.

 

And that’s the illusion. That if everyone just follows the same rules as me, we will all be happy.

 

I think it was Oscar Wilde who said, and I paraphrase

Selfishness is not living the way you would like, it’s expecting others to live the way you would like.

 

So, I began to think through my rules.

And I began to watch how I blindly obeyed them in society, and began to consciously obey instead, making a decision each time as best I could in that moment as to what served me.

 

To stop at a red traffic light is an idea that serves me.

Yet, it doesn’t serve me living in South Africa to stop at 2am, when I can see all oncoming traffic and I’m in a dangerous area.

So, what to do?

You follow the guidelines or “rules” consciously.

YOU decide what gives you safety in the situation.

Boundaries and rules become fluid.

 

You discuss with others what you would like, negotiating your own boundaries and theirs.

When they are rigid, they become either/or situations.

When they are fluid, it becomes what serves me as my highest self in this situation, without deliberately causing harm to others.

 

Conscious people would not play loud music in their townhouse complex at 2am. They wouldn’t need a rule.

 

With sexuality, it’s exactly the same.

Sexually conscious people make decisions for themselves, give themselves safety first, and then extend compassion and awareness to those around them.

Safety comes from within.

Your rules and boundaries are decided by you, for you.

Not by others, your partner, society.

 

And when you decide what serves you, consciously, there’s a natural progression that that extends to those around you.

 

We are coming to Cape Town from the 16th July, starting with a free talk on that evening. The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

 

We’ve are SO excited about having found a pool for the Water Flow Massage. It is such a beautiful experience, we are so looking forward to sharing it with you.

 

Places are limited so please book early for this.

For the full Cape Town programme, see the workshop listing on the other side of the newsletter

 

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

 

We wish you so much pleasure…

Jonti and Anne-Marie

 

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Workshops & Events

 

Booking for these workshops is essential. Discounts are available for attending more than one workshop

Contact Jonti: 083 743 5129

or: jontisearll@mweb.co.za

Johannesburg

 

Thurs 5 July: Mini Sensual Massage

A practical experience of the basics of Sensual Massage and Erotic Touch.

7:30 pm, R400/person.

 

Tues 10 July: For Women Only

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking orgasm short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, some practical exercises for increasing your sexual pleasure potential & whatever else you’d like to talk about….

7 pm, R350/person.

 

Thurs 12 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

This is for singles and couples.

7 pm, R350/person.

 

 

Cape Town

The Cape Town workshops will be at The Novalis Centre in Kenilworth.

 

We’ve are SO excited about having found a pool for the Water Flow Massage. It is such a beautiful experience, we are so looking forward to sharing it with you.

 

Places are limited so please book early for this.

 

Amazing Special Offers:

For couples who would like to do the entire programme, R4800, save R2600.

We also have a special offer for single people interested in the full programme of evening workshops. The full price would normally be R2450, we would love to share with you for R1800.

These offers are only available for bookings and payments made by 7 July.

 

We begin on Mon 16th July with a free talk on The Benefits of A Sexual Journey, 7pm, singles and couples

 

We’ll look at what these journey’s involve, the impact on your life, your relationship, work and friendships, what this offers singles and couples, what sexual healing is etc.

We’ll talk about the forthcoming  workshops, what they involve, how the experiences happen etc.

 

Tues 17 July: An Introduction to Tantra Evolution.

7pm R350 per person, for singles and couples

 

A gentle introduction to the principles of Tantra Evolution, our understanding of what Tantra is, how to incorporate Tantra into your life and relationships, how the principles of Evolutionary Tantra can help with sexual exploration, the difference between sex and sensuality, the connection between sex and spirituality.

 

The practical part of the workshop is gentle, clothed, the exercises can be done on your own or with a partner.

 

Wed 18 July: Expanded Orgasmic Wave.

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a philosophy and technique that has amazing possibilities, which include how a woman can be in an orgasmic state for over an hour, even longer, how men can experience multiple orgasms and more.

This workshop gives you a new understanding of pleasure and includes some really important sexual ideas.

We begin with the difference between a ‘normal’ and Expanded Orgasm, the importance of getting out of the goal, sexual fears, how we’ve made sex about performance and the pressure this creates for men and women.

We look at how to make this experience happen for men and women, going step-by-step through the technique. This is demonstrated on latex models of the genitals, no nudity is involved.

As part of this we have a detailed discussion on genital anatomy, the truth of what’s where, how to find it and touch it, including the G-Spot.

The workshop includes a free copy of The Expanded Orgasm E-book, valued at R300.

 

Thurs 19 July: Sexual Skills.

(Subtitled: Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex But Never Asked….)

7pm, R350 per person, singles and couples

It’s very rare we get taught about being good lovers, which is one of the most important skills in life. Nobody teaches us about our bodies, about our partner’s bodies, about what to do, how to do…

It’s not often that we have a non-judgemental space to ask questions, get open and honest answers.

That’s what this workshop is about.

And you create it with your questions and the topics you’d like to talk about.

We usually begin with oral sex techniques for men and women, something everyone’s interested in, look at positions, fantasies…Anything you like.

At the moment there is a great interest in anal play so we look at anal stimulation, how to enjoy anal activities…

More people than ever are exploring their sexuality, we talk about this, exploring with others, how to talk about these topics etc.

This is a talk workshop for singles and couples.

 

Sat 21 July: Tantric Sensual Massage.

11am – 4pm R2000 per couple

Sensual Massage is an art that offers hours of pleasure, deep connection, amazing intimacy, healing, communication, exploration, play, excitement…

This is a practical workshop for couples.

We talk for an hour about creating the space, where to massage, what to massage with, communication etc.

Then we move into the experience, beginning with an understanding of energy, creating an intention, connecting and Energy Massage.

The format is that we demonstrate, then you and your partner have time to enjoy that with each other.

We progress into Bliss Body Massage, Heart Touch and move deeper into the Massage.

We have developed a unique way of touching that’s a creative expression of how you feel rather than being bound by a technique. This teaches you how to touch with your entire body and open doors to a journey of literally endless pleasure.

A powerful aspect of this is The Sexual Fire, you learn to build and spread this energy in the body for a heightened state of pleasure.

As physical as this massage is, it’s also an expression of energy, the beauty and power of sexual and sensual energy.

 

Sat 21 July, 6:30 pm: Sacred Sexual Massage.

R800 per couple

This is an expression of love, of worship, of honouring the beauty of the Yoni and Lingam, the spiritual expression of sexual energy.

The workshop includes extensive information about our genitals, including Deep G-Spot Stimulation, The A-Spot, Female Ejaculation, Deep Uterine Orgasms, Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms for Men and more.

There are two aspects to the workshop.

The first is Quiet Lingam, Welcoming Yoni. This is an extremely slow and gentle touch that moves waves of pleasure through the body in a state of deep relaxation. This experience gives a new dimension to pleasure that expands our understanding and possibilities.

The Sexual Fire allows you to take your partner to deep and heightened states of pleasure, the places we dream about.

This is a practical experience for couples. We demonstrate, you share the pleasure with each other.

 

Mon 23 July: Water Flow Massage

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is an experience of deep sensuality that takes you to a place we rarely experience. Relaxation that melts the boundaries of your body. Swirling water that expands your consciousness. Touch that takes you to a place of sensual beauty. Safety that allows you to release into this.

 

In a heated pool surrounded by candlelight, you’ll be guided through this magical experience.

 

It’s in an indoor heated pool, not a hot tub or jacuzzi.

You may wear a costume.

It’s not a frenzied orgy.

It’s an experience of safety, honouring and respect.

It takes you to a place of healing, sensuality, release, beauty, touch, feeling, connection and love.

It is fun, exciting, and oh so so beautiful.

 

 

Tues 24 July: Conscious Self-Pleasuring.

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

Self-Pleasuring goes beyond masturbation, beyond playing with yourself.

This workshop gives you the tools to use your sexual energy in many ways. One of the principles of Eastern Sexual Energy practices is that our sexual energy is so powerful we can use it for more than ‘just sex’. We can use it for healing, for meditation, for manifestation, for creativity and more.

We go through the processes that show you how to build, access and move energy in different ways in your body.

These include movement, breath and sound.

We’re working with sexual energy, there’s no nudity, the workshop is for singles and couples.

The workshop is complete, and we’re adding an extension to the workshop that’s a practical experience of the energy.

This involves being guided through some of the self-pleasuring and energy while actively doing the techniques. Even though this is in a group, the lights are very low, you can keep your body covered.

 

Wed 25 July For Women Only Workshop.

7pm R350 per person

An evening for women only, a space to talk freely, ask questions and share.

We look at issues such as: why faking it short circuits your pleasure process, sexpectations, sexual ego for men and women, sexual communication, sexual pressure on men, the things your man can’t tell you, whatever else you’d like to talk about…

 

Thurs 26 July: Your Sexual Matrix.

Accessing Your Inner Sexual World.

7pm R350 per person, singles and couples

This is a journey into the power of your inner erotic landscape.

We talk about the difference between porn and eroticism, the messages of porn, sensuality, the impact they have on our lives, relationships and sexual expression, the power of fantasy, acceptable and taboo, how important context is etc.

We include looking at images, reading some erotic pieces and our reaction to them. This opens the door to getting in touch with your own creativity and writing a piece of erotic expression.

We spend this evening in a small bistro with some delicious coffee, liqueurs and desserts.

 

For FAQs and more info

www.tantraevolution.com

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